Suicide ever considered?

[camman]

When getting out of a long realtion ship has anyone ever really considered suicide. I mean though about it alot. I am not saying like u got out the gun and loaded it , but have u ever really considered it?

I am just asking if u have gone through this , i dont need a whole bunch or posts saying dont do it. I am ok, i am not gonna go crazy, it was a phase. I thougt about it alot after a big breck up. not gonna get into it .. to much to fit on this site lol.

But yea thanxs .

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

HMM, you know i did once.. and i thought to my self.. "am i a fuk tard?" well serious nothin like that is worth loosing your life over.. a girl i went to school hung her self to get out of a relationship and abuse.. and stuff.. there is no reason for it... live life. to its fullest, good bad.. whatever.. its life.. you live and learn.. is what i figure

[WallyLlama]

I can't honestly say that I have, but then I tend to agree with Abraham Lincoln that "Most people are about as happy as they decide to be."

Now killing somebody else... LOL

Seriously, we take a lot of sh*t too seriously. We ought to take our responsibility for ourselves VERY seriously.

[vagabondprince]

the thought has come to mind once or twice, but never seriously at all, especially not because of a relationship.

[JustTrying2BeAGOODBoyfriend]

Yeah i have contemplated suicide...but don't we all at some time or another, not over a relationship or anything like that, but rather the relationship with my girlfriend kept me going, it's like i have someone to live for, besides myself, so i look at how it would have effected her if i did... so be grateful for your partners!!

[Tessie]

No, I was raised to believe it is a very big sin and also was taught that life has its ups and downs and its up to us to wait for the ups to come again. They always do.

[JustTrying2BeAGOODBoyfriend]

Yeah i was raised, still being raised, that suicide is stupid and all, but I am product of a disfunctional family, my parents are not on the brighter side of things, so once your down and depressed they retaliate against you, calling you ungrateful and many other not very nice names that i had come accustomed to at a young age.
I think that is why i had sex so young, there was a part of my life missing, love... it's kind of sad, and no i'm not some basket case, loathing in self pity... i was always the straight A+ student all of my life until Junior High, instead of straight A+ i got by with A's and B's, now in Highschool I'm just trying to pull off Straight A's so i can laugh in their faces it's just i've "...never shined through in what i've shown..." and i was starting to get sick of it until, my second little brother was born, and then my girlfriend happened to, now i have people whom i love that i want to live for, i don't want my little brother knowing he had an older brother who wasn't there for him, and having my parents speaking badly of me if i commit suicide.

[Tessie]

((((hugs)))) JustTrying2BeAGOODBoyfriend, I know parents can put an awful strain on a young persons life. I grew up with a drunk and have more horror stories then I care to remember. You can't let them define who you are as a person. You must do the defining yourself. Get those good grades and be a great big brother for your own joy and satifaction.

I too had sex at a young age and continued making poor choices looking for love. Now as a much older and a little wiser I can look back and see how wrong it was for me to continue to look for acceptance from others before learning to accept me for who I am.

You will soon be a grown-up and getting on with life and all it's ups and downs. Use the bad in your life to grow and be stronger. You can do it. *

[monie]

There is so much I could say about this topic, but I'm finally in the holiday spirit for the first time in years, and its rather enjoyable, so Id rather not think about it all.

Eventually I'll post my insight on this, cause I do have a lot.

Very good post Tessie. Sounds like something a family friend told me when I was 13...

[JustTrying2BeAGOODBoyfriend]

Thanks Tessie, <<tear runs down face>>, that is one of the kinder things someone has ever said to me before, renewed hope is always welcome, thanks again...