Dirty Talk

[territries]

Several years ago my husband and I were rather quiet
during sex except for the occasional moan and heavy
breathing. One evening, after watching an adult film together,
we were both more aroused than usual. While we were peeling off what little remained of our clothes, my husband started telling me what he was going to do to me, using rather rough, graphic language. Rather than being offended I
kinda enjoyed it. I in turn began saying things back, in a sense trying to see if it would shock him. It didn't... it just
sort of started a highly charged sexual encounter that was unlike anything we had experienced before. Since then,
we often try to verbally arouse each other during sex, and
even use it as a form of foreplay.

Anyway, my husband I were curious if other couples used verbal communication like we do to enhance the experience,
or are we the exception?

[eDJ]

Several years ago when my girlfriend and I were out of town we decided to try something different for our entertainment. *We had our usual daytime thing but wanted to try some adult stuff. *It would be the starting of our learning how to talk diry to each other.

We went to this Adult store with the video booths, magazines, adult toys, etc. *We went in the wee hours of the morning when there was hardly anyone there. *I had several rolls of quarters to place in the video machines and we found some of the booths were for couples.

When we had seen enough she wandered over to the counter where a guy was at the cash register. *She wanted to buy some butt plugs and try anal as we had viewed, yet the guy sort of made her reluctant at first. *I dared her and teased her(I noticed the guy was openly gay earlier) so she finally approached the guy to talk to him. *They were enjoying talking very much so I stayed back to let her have the fun I thought she might have with him. *She had him explaining how he had anal sex with his lover and explaining and recommending lubes etc. *He had provided her with a selection of plugs in various sizes etc. *He was flattered that
she wanted to talk to him about it.(why I stayed my distance)

Before leaving she purused the magazines, but wasn't that enthused.....she had seen mine. *The real jackpot was when she found the "Dirty Paperbacks". *She was an avid reader but had never seen these anything like these. *Just down and dirty starting with the first paragraph and page.

As we drove back to the motel room she was reading from pages of "Boy Hungary Librarian", "Big Bike Girl", "Slash of Lust", Teacher's Pets", and "Hottest lips on the Block".
As she read the hot dirty talk aloud to me while I drove we were both becoming aroused. *I suggested we pull over and find a private place to get it on, but she was having so much fun reading the lines of text she didn't want to stop. *A state of arousal she enjoys lingering in.

When we got to the room and got in bed she nuzzled up to me and said "I wish I could think of things like that to say".
So I told her to read the books and learn the lines so that she could use as a base of things to say. Practice them and be able to say them when the right time comes.

She has since been able to learn to "put on the whore" as she says when she wants to. *She still likes me to engage her with my hottest talk, *If I ply her with some wine or mixed drinks it is easier for her to slip into the sexually aggressive woman role.

So now we make an art form out of it. *Even look for new verbage in the dirty paperback novels to build on from there.
She likes it when I have her naked in nothing but her strap high heels and dangling ear-rings and press her against the wood panneled wall, gripping her breast *in my hands and gently rubbing her nipples against the wall talking *dirty to her and rubbing myself against her back.

These events leave us at each other for about three hours. *It's nice for the rainy days and evenings when we can take the phone off the hook and know we will be alone.

eDJ

[Tessie]

Damn eDJ that turned me on!

I like it if its one of those really hot nights, then anything can fly out of my mouth. If I start talking dirty he is sure to follow close behind.

[eDJ]

I'm flattered and delighted Tessie I used to practice my hottest talk in Yahoo Adult chatrooms just for fun. Ah cyber,
I love it.

Maybe if we get that erotic stories thread going here...hmmm?

eDJ

[duckie]

OMG this has to be our steamiest of nights when we start talking dirty too each other. It is something else to completely get out of the role of wife and mother even if only for a night. But, man do i get turned on! I too eDJ turn to errotic stories or even my hubbies mags to get ideas. It has reignited our love life time and time again. And to know that i still can turn him on is a turn on. I'm always looking for little things or ways that are a little different to say or do to spark the fire....... Wow and the orgasmisms that follow... I also agree eDJ that with a little to drink it helps one not feel so selfconcious or silly about what they do or say and makes it more comfortable, sexy, kinky and dirty and able to explore things that you normally wouldn't

[constantlylearning]

"Reignited" that is a stretch I bet.......

[raez]

Have any of you ever felt silly when talking dirty or when you tried it for the first time? Every time I think about doing it, it just sounds ridiculous in my head lol. The most I can seem to manage is the random naughty text to him. Though maybe thats a good starting place to work up to it from?

[dlb]

Naughty text is good. Very good.

[goof'schik]

It doesn't have to be nasty or vulgar. Just use the right tone (verbally) and tell him what you have thought of all day. What you want to do to him and what you want him to do to you.
Word to the wise, being from the Metro Detroit area, careful what you write or say using his company voicemail, texting or cell phone. Your company pays for it, don't have them have it come back on you.

[constantlylearning]

What if you own the companies????