interested in showering together

[ductapefaerie]

Wow, I guess I'm just in a posting mood tonight! Well, my question this time is about the shower...I've read that it's hard to have sex in the shower, so that removes that problem from the equation, mostly, but I have this thing...I want to take a shower with my bf...or just be in the shower with him...if that makes sense...but everytime I kinda suggest it, he turns it down...now, I haven't suggested it for a while...so there's the possibility that he'd say yes now...but is there anything I can do to possibly persuade him that it's okay to do that? I'd never force him to do anything, but I really want to take a shower with him...

[bluesman]

when i used to shower with my ex it was extremely hard for me not to get turned on. Sometimes if i did she would get annoyed but its to be expected. Have you let him know that you don't want to have sex in the shower? cause that may have put pressure on him not to get turned on and thats the reason he turned you down. Or try this, have sex or get him off before you get in and suggest that you clean up and relax with a nice shower. And it is very possible to have sex in the shower

[WallyLlama]

Wear bathing suits?



Two naked bodies in a tight space... lots of lathering... skin glistening...

Heck, I'm turned on just thinking about it.

There's no way this will not be sexual. Anyone who thinks sex in a shower is hard hasn't given it much effort. It is a major part of the equation.

[Brandye]

Showering with a man is fun and you are correct, I have always found vaginal sex difficult. It is a great place for a handjob or blowjob. The soap is a good lube for the hand and the shower carries away the semen for easy disposal.

My girlfriend and I prefer a tub. Lots of cuddling.

[demonbuttercup]

yeah showering is fun.
my b/f definetly gets turned on.
when i have to slide past him its like going through one of those "bar rotating" things like thats before a rollercoaster or subway... maybe you know what im talking about. booiiinnng.
its funny if you think about it lol. or maybe its just me lol.

[loverboy]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (bluesman @ Aug. 02 2004,23:45)]Or try this, have sex or get him off before you get in and suggest that you clean up and relax with a nice shower.

Yeah, if you are into it (if you haven't tried it, he might like it) try getting really "dirty" Maybe have him come on your body or other things along those lines. It may excite him enough to want to share a sensual shower with you and wash you off, but he will have already finished, so he most likely wont be rearing to go.

As a guy, I kind of have a similar problem, but opposite. My girlfriend and I take showers when she comes down to stay with me, but no matter the amount of caressing or lathering I do, I can't seem to get her turned on in the shower. Kind of a bummer, cause it would be so easy to clean up the mess I want to leave...

[vagabondprince]

that's odd that he doesn't want to shower...showering with my girlfriend (ex) was something i would always try to do, but for a long time it never happened. finally after a while, we had one of those hot and sweaty nights and decided to rinse off afterward. i love the feel of wet naked skin against my body

[Mouta]

I like showering with my gf. We usually shower after we go at it for a long time and we're all hot and sweaty. It's usually after I release so we just kiss and stuff, clean up, get out and go out

[monie]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (demonbuttercup @ Aug. 03 2004,10:15)]yeah showering is fun.
my b/f definetly gets turned on.
when i have to slide past him its like going through one of those "bar rotating" things like thats before a rollercoaster or subway... maybe you know what im talking about. booiiinnng.
its funny if you think about it lol. or maybe its just me lol.

AAAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!

I know exactly what you mean Demon.

That's freakin hilarious.

[oberon]

I'm on the minority in this one it seems.

I have an ex who always wanted to shower together. UGH! lol I don't have a problem with this IF it's for sexual purposes. But just to get clean? Nope, the showertime is MY time.