help! positions-man on top:arms tired,moves clumsy

[juwomale36]

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[Brandye]

You two need to do some experimenting. Something is going to work but that is different for every couple.

If she clamps her legs together (yours on the outside of hers), the weight you need to support is decreased and the depth is limited. Addresses two issues!

Perverted positions? OK, up to you. If it is acceptable, lay on your side and have her drape her legs over your hips. This has not weight on anyone and each of you has access to breast of genital stimulation.

Forget about stimulating the vagina. There are no nerve endings in the vagina. If there were, childbirth would be excruciating. The stimulation needed is on the lips and clitoris. We women get a sense of depth by the feelings in other parts of us, inside and outside, not from what we feel in the vagina.

Keep trying - if you are sure you are not being set up for constant failure and a sexless marriage.

[juwomale36]

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[vagabondprince]

i don't know if this is what you meant by elbows, but if you hug her and support about half your weight on your elbows and forearms while letting her support some of the weight (hopefully leaning on your elbows while doing this will take enough weight off so she can breathe) you have a nice laying position that you can stay in for hours. well, forty five minutes is the longest i've actually had to rely on that position.
as for her being on top, it works better if she's on her knees than if she's actually laying flat on top of you. she can push her body off you that way so you can get some of that hip action in.

[demonbuttercup]

still one of my favorite positions is w/ me laying on my back, my butt on the edge of the bed.
then my b/f just stands beside the bed, between my legs.
it makes it easier for me to stimulate my clit and he's not having to support any weight.. just stand there.