wanting to do something new

[thetease13]

Ok, so me and my guy are nearing the 1 year mark of knowing each other (little less than 2 weeks i think), and we're about a month and a half shy of admitting the attraction to each other.
this is a long term relationship for me since lots of time, I have issues keeping friends that long since most of them just want to use and abuse me.

for those that don't know my situation, he is pretty much a great friend with benefits. he is married (*waits for evil looks*) so we don't really get any time together. if or when we do get time (which is rare) it's a really short time together, like just an hour or so.

so here's my thing.
he has enjoyed all the little things I do for him, like the shaving, the lingerie thing, the no underwear or bra thing on ocassion, and in fact, he still enjoys them very much.
but I am a type of person that aims to please and always wants to give a little more.

is there any advice you long term gurus out there can give me on what to do? i don't necessarily mean sex wise either.
i skimmed through some posts on here and really, most people want to know how to spice up their sex life, which is not my issue. we're always willing to pounce if ever given the chance and since the time together is always so rare, we enjoy every second of it.
so yea, again, not really meaning the sex spice up thing.

i would just like to do something else, and well, i've run out of ideas.

[Tessie]

You could make some kind of cute book that list all the ways you love your guy. Put in what he means to you and all he has done for you. Put in there special memories and what it is about him drives you wild.

You can keep the book at your place and add to it as time and something happens. And when he comes over he can see the new additions.

Kind of like an ongoing journal of the journey you are on together.

If you are crafty you can really get into it with all the neat scrap booking things that are out there.

[thetease13]

that might be a bit of a problem.
i've told him how I felt and he thinks i'm silly.
And he never comes over either. lol. The only time we see each other is at work and on those rare ocassions, in his truck after work or in a hotel after work.

Thanks for the idea though.
It's cute. Just in our situation, I don't think that's gonna work. lol.

[Brandye]

A married guy? In his truck? Won't come over? Thinks it is silly? Like just an hour?

Pull up your pants and run!