Sex Postions...and After Sex

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

Alright, im curious how you guys have dealt with your sex lives, because yea sex is good, but could be great.. in my situation, basically im on top, thats it.. is there anyway to give variation?? it hurts Ty's knees and stuff to be on top, because of soccer injuries.. but.. I mean, is there different ways/postions out there, are are simple.... with out causing him too much strain, and that are pleasureable for both? Cause personally, i think im getting tired of being on top, sure i likeit up there, but how do you just let loose and do what you want... and what your partner wants....
Also, im not sure if its "normal" but, does anyone in here find after sex, they hurt? and are sore, its almost ilke a burning... and when you pee, oh good god.. it hurts.. and feels like you gotta keep peeing, this is only if he cums in side you? if there is a condom, or he doesn't.. its fine.. but if not.. it hurts.... and ALSO lol do you guys find.. after sex your legs shake? if you stand?

[LittleFury]

Hmmm. There is always spoon position that shouldn't hurt his knees and can be pretty fun. Other then that, I can't think of much at the moment.
For the second part...it sounds like you could possibly be allergic to the semen, you mgiht want to check with the doctor. IF you're not...then you mgiht just be getting pretty sore. I used to get like that a lot and still do sometimes. I know it burn like hel. I just let it heal up for a couple of days, wear undies that are not skintight, sleep naked. Also, what I do a lot of times then that happens, after sex, I wash it with cool water and use a bit of Vagisil. I would recommend regular strengh, MAximum one is a bit grainy and because of that doesn't seem to help as much. And just let it heal up. But from what you said, it very much sounds like you might be allergic to his semen.

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

Well, thats what im thinking, because we don't really go rough at all, you know? well the odd time... but once, he came.. and then.. bam.. it hurt.. i had to stop.., and it almost seems like i go dry too after he has came? its weird...

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

i forgot... umm we do try spooning LOL when we have to be quiet, and can't make the bed make much noise.. i like it, so does he.. cause LOL he luvs my butt.. but.. i mean.. i've tried doggy with him, once, but we both were drinking and it worked then, adn it was great, we've tried after.. and lol it just wont work, like he cant get it in.. and etc.. etc, its just weird...

[demonbuttercup]

one of my fav positions is me lying on my back w/ my ass at the edge of the bed then my b/f stands at the edge of the bed.
this shouldn't put too much strain on his knees and i like it b/c i can play w/ myself easy. can't really do that good in the missionary.
and my b/f always like the view

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

Yea, i like that on the table LOL but.. i havent tried that with him...Thank you
So how do you guys get your.. guy to open up to you... and try new things, like i wanna watch porn together and.. i duno just.. yea.. and try different kinds of positions and do the whole role playing thing, hand cuffs... but im not sure if is interested in that, i am really his first partner.. that hes had sex with... so im not sure how to open him up fully...because, he is amazin, i would just like to try new things... im very.. adventurious.. but.. i duno how to get that awakened in him....

[LittleFury]

well...it's kind of weird with me and my bf. I was with a guy before...but he was so tiny and so aweful in bed that we joke and say that I was almost a virgin then I met my bf. My bf is 10 years older and much more experienced then I was and am. BEfore we have done it very first time, we talked about it, I told him that I wasn't experienced at all. He told me not to worry and that he would take it slow at teach me all that he can. So now it's not really the problem. I sometimes feel strange telling him something that I want to check out, but he holds me close, tells me that he would never laugh at me, and that there is no reason for me to be afraiod to share my houghts with him...and about 40 min later after me saying "No way, you'll laugh" and him pastering me, I finally tell him. BUt my bf and I are very open with each other about it and expremely confortable.

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

I know what you mean, me and ty used to do that alot.. well just talk before.. for about an hour or more.. but i've been begining to want to.. well talk about.. what i want in bed..and to know what HE wants, LOL i've mentioned things to him, but he just smiles or giggles, and that is the end of it... i know he likes when im in control... LOL hes told me so, but how to work with it?? bah... SO CONFUSIN aint it?

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

oh i forgot, another thing is.. do you find it sometimes hard.. well ok do you find your always the one who initiates.. sex? or anything of the sort? but he has done it like 3 times out of your time being together, but... 3/4ths... or more of the time its always you... basically wanting it.. and saying it.

[?wiseman?]

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