Burnt out?

[babydoll]

Please someone help!!
I have been dating this wonderful guy for over three years now. *Our sex life is geat, that is, when I FINALLY get in the mood!! When we first started dating, we were all over each other. *It didn't matter where we were, we would be doing something sexual. *Now, it seems I'm never "in the mood" anymore. *I'm only 18 and I feel like I'm 90. *What can I do to get the desire back? *I've tried things like toys, porn, dirty talk, etc. but I want it to come naturally like when we first started dating. *I mean, I used to masterbate two or more times a day!! Now, I can't even remember where I left my sex toy last. *Please, if anyone has any suggestions, it would help a lot.
thnx,
Babydoll

[nodoubt16pb]

Maybe you are having those rare months people have when they are just not in the mood.
It happens.
Just for now take your time and see if you come around.. if you don't come around then maybe you need to ask him what you want... you are probably not satisfied.. and if you donno what you want then ponder it. Not only with sex but with life. Are you in a crisis... under stress... thinking life questions... seeking a career? If you are understress for any reasons then yes... sex will not happen most of the time. Just take this time to yourself and relax and figure out why you are so not in the mood.
Also when you watch porn... does that turn you on? If not figure out why... are you getting bored with the same ol' thing and want to get more into kinky areas? If so do em! But most likely it could be stres... or maybe non interested in him. Are you interested in him anymore? Do you still give a googleeyed stare? We all go through a time where we take each other for granted and we don't feel the same as we use to for someone... but it changed with time. The beginning is lust and as you go on it turns into love. Or it is lust and love at the same time i donno lol ? You might feel down cuz you realize you have been together a long time and the magic has faded... if so keep it up. Do things you use to do. Or do soemthing different. Do soemthing more kinky or more riskay. The key to a relationship is to keep it exciting and now you have to find out how and find out why you feel these feelings. You are not a bad person... if you ever thought that.. for any reason.. we all go trhough it and you are normal. So find out what is going on in your head. Maybe you aren't horny. Maybe you need to get soem magic happening. Maybe you are under stress? Just think about it to yourself.