Since joining here Ive read alot about stimulating a mans anus. So I built up the courage and I have done it twice with my boyfriend when I was giving oral. I dont mind it that much, I quite like the fact that he seems to make more noises etc!
But how far in do I go? Ive gone in like 3 inches, but he says sometimes it feels like Im going too far. He also doesnt know whether he likes it or not, he says its very enjoyable most of the time its just when it feels like Im going too far he doesnt like it. But I cant seem to find anything 'walnut sized' as Ive seen it described. How far in do I go to reach the part for stimulation???
Any help would be great, and Ive read the pinned topic about it but it didnt say how far in to go.
Thanks.
Wed, 05/09/2007 - 13:29
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male prostate???
I'd say two to three inches and use a vibrating anal probe to do it with. With the vibe it is easier and more stimulating.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_him/19950-playing_ball_how_tips_prostate_massage.html
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :cool: Does ANYONE read the sticky's that Doc has put up?
...and in addition to this is the fact that the nerves in the Prostate gland as well as those in and around the anus/sphincters only "turn on" when a person is very aroused and really turned on. This is not to say that the outside of the anus cannot or should not be fingered early on, only that results are best when he is nearing the trigger point of an orgasm.
The same holds true for you and your anus as well as your G-spot. All stimulation greatly enhances a person's orgasms and will often help trigger an orgasm that is being elusive, such as the second or third in a string of multiples.
He can tell you when you've hit the "spot". You should be able to feel the Prostate because it will feel like a slight bulge under the lining on the anterior {front) wall.
For additional information on this, please read the following Sticky post:
"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
I hope this is of help.
My wife always uses an anal toy(Spectragels Vibrating Anal Tool, Anal E-Z Bend, Anal T or Anal Beads) to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms. It will blow his mind. Toys work better than fingers.