Ok, today I had lunch with a co-worker and his friend. They were catching up on life and some of it was about my co-worker's friend's relationship with his wife and the FMF threesomes they have. when my co-worker asked, "so did you give your girl a MFM yet?", he replied, "hell no, that ain't going to happen." So after lunch, my co-worker agreed with his friend that MFM is not his thing either. I disagreed and said MFM or FMF is cool with me. The thing is I like to satisfy a woman totally, and with another male, we could take her to a whole other level of satisfaction, beyond anything she could ever amagine. That's the turn on and excitement that I like about MFMs. The different opinion than mine is cool with me, but most friends of mine feel the same way, than FMFs are great :) and MFMs are not great :( , now I feel strange like there something wrong with me, when I know there isn't. ANYONE, WHAT'S YOUR OPINION ON THIS? (also, for the record, i am 100% straight = no male/male contact = it's all about her)
Fri, 07/07/2006 - 22:10
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male prefers mfm threesome, is this ok?
[QUOTE=venus]....none of the men I was with were bi. They are all straight. One of them even put the condom on the other guy (I asked him to) because he thought it'd make me more excited than I already was....[/QUOTE]
Isn't that the plot of one of the "Ambiguously Gay Duo" cartoons?
(not that there's anything wrong with that! :D )
OMG! People, let's open up our minds here.
OK, I am female and have MFM but no FMF, because I 'do not share well'! LOL! I enjoyed the threesomes (and more) and none of the men I was with were bi. They are all straight. One of them even put the condom on the other guy (I asked him to) because he thought it'd make me more excited than I already was.
In any case, I am voting in favour of MFM (but keep in mind, I am a female) experiences.
[QUOTE=xxxcowboy]i am 100% straight = no male/male contact = it's all about her)[/QUOTE]
C'mon, be honest. There's at least a little bit of bi in you, right? I mean, you do know that simple logistics dictate that you and the other guy are bound to have your balls rubbing against each other at some point in time while working her over.
:D
There's nothing wrong with just admitting that.
"... all about her." Yeah, right.
Please read some of the threads on threesomes around this board. It seems that those "going to" are all bright and cheery; those who "have done" have had rather gloomy results.
[QUOTE=Brandye]"... all about her." Yeah, right. [/QUOTE]
Com'on, this is the best you can do? Believe it or not, this is a real thread that might shine light onto this unusual lopesided subject. I have seen at least one male that feels the same way as I do, there's probably more. So where are you guys' at? And the "YEAH RIGHT comment. As I already stated, MFM threesome turn me on because it is giving her the ultimate sexual experience, what part of that is hard to understand? I'm just surprised that there's not more educated responses or shared experiences. Please expand your replies. Thanks.
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[QUOTE=Ryouko]dum dum dummmmmmm!...
in one corner we have a scottish female doctor that has made more posts than years after the coming of christ.
in the other corner we have someone who joined sometime in the past 8 days and has only made three posts.
I can see a little bit of where you are coming from about liking to give girls pleasure, but most of the time it is just that guys get pleasure from giving them plesure. ( kind of like how it is impossible to do something completely selfless because you would do it to somehow benefit yourself.)[/QUOTE]
I'm not here to battle anyone. Sex is a great thing, something I enjoy very much, and I joined to gain more insight on something I think I know alot about, and to to give insight and share experiences when I can. As members will see, when I post to a thread, I will either be helpful and insightful(at least that would be my intent of the posting), or I will share an experience that I had. I just want the same courtesy on my threads.
Anyone that can add insight to this thread, please do. Any experience, good or bad, please share. Thanks.
Ok, UA322, maybe that's what you like and would want, but sorry, I don't go that route. And take note, if you're doing a DP and the only thing you're noticing is the other guys balls rubbing yours, then you're focusing on the wrong thing.
Now back to the real deal. Venus, you got it right on point. Doubling up on a woman, having fun and rocking her world; that is a blast. One time, during a planned MFM, we were soo much into our groove, we didn't notice we had the "C&C MUSIC FACTORY" cd playing the whole 3hrs we were getting it on. I don't think we did DP so sorry UA322, can't tell you about the balls to balls rubbing.(laughing) Anyway, I just like the thought of working a woman over, taking her to another level. Make note, I would NEVER pass up a FMF. But with my wife, that will never happen. She not into women.
Thanks UA322 and VENUS for your posts. Anyone else? For a internet sex forum, you'll are folks of few words. Why is that?
Because there are at least a dozen threads on threesomes and we get tired of addressing the same stuff. Look around.
Hon nothing is completely "normal" even though people try to set the standards for it... don't worry bout a thing (sorry bad song referance) Whatever makes you happy is normal for you so don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
had a mfm threesome and loved it. I agree with you cowboy that they are great. so dont think that you are the only one or you are weird. I am sure there are mre of us out there with the same opinion.
Well it seems I am resurecting a very dead thread but oh well, I have an opinion. Cowboy, I have had two MMF threesomes and they were awesome, I am not bi or even bi curious. On both occasions both men took turns with the women and pleasured the shit out of her. Never done a DP but it would probably be a liberating and erotic experience. I am also with you in the fact that I want to have me and another man pleasure my wife. This is not strange and there are other men out there that share your desires, some are just afraid to speak up.
What's this about "have done" being all gloomy??!?!?
HARDLY!!!
MFMs are GREAT!
so are MMFMs & FMMMMMMMMMMMMMs & etc.
Hey - sometimes one man (or perhaps 6 if I'm hungry for sex) just isn't enough.
The person in threesome who is in minority enjoys more. Also he or she feels secure. I prefer mfm . and dont prefer fmf at all. the person who is in minority is given more attention and thats the key. And this is natural.
The 'odd gender out' is the focus of the group.
If it is more than three it can be 2-3M::1F ratio. ie 5 male 2 females . But ideally mfm is the best for me to enjoy. We have bit privacy and better fire power .
IMO, I would have a harder time with an MFM than an FMF. I enjoy being my partner's exclusively. Bringing another guy into the scenario would feel really odd to me and most likely set me way off kilter (not that I'm not interested in one, but I know I would feel wierded right out). I'd expect him to pay more attention to the other woman in an FMF as she'd be the new shiny toy, and that's perfectly fine with me, as she'd be my shiny new toy too (I enjoy both men and women, but prefer men and identify as straight). the issue would arise if he decided to keep seeing said shiny new toy, which is impossible in my mind. EEK will understand that line xD.
I do understand that line. What I do not understand is why you feel you 'belong' to just this one man and so cannot be with him and another. There is nothing to get weirded out about. He stays on his side and your partner stays on the other side and you reap all of the benefits.
Start at the ankles, boys, and slowly lick your way up!
I do feel a sense of belonging, but it comes with the relationship that we have. He isn't posessive or anything, but I've never been so comfortable or open with someone. I'm not sure how it translates into what I'm feeling (unless in a primal sense), but I don't dislike the feeling.
Part of the issue lies in the fact that I'm really not attracted to anyone else.
Rouge, Its good that you want your partner to enjoy with a new toy. Is it that you dont want yourself to be enjoyed by someone in front of your hubby. Or you believe to MFM with unknown / strange / new partners.
I feel, one male can enjoy 2 females but not satisfy them. Although this is my belief. But in MFM all three enjoys. I guarantee you. Just try.
I don't understand why it is that when girls do threesomes FMF it's considered normal and they don't have to be gay or bi but when guys do threesomes MFM it's only because they're bi. I'd be even more attracted to a guy who was willing to have a MFM with me and another guy just to please me. I don't think that's weird at all. It's knd of... romantic, if u will. Lol
In both kinds of threesums, the person is only considered to be bisexual, or participating in bisexual activities if they're playing with the partner of the same sex. Two guys teaming up on one chick isn't gay or bisexual at all.
As for Sania's question, It's because I"m not attracted to any other guy. If I'm not attracted to someone else, I don't want them anywhere near me sexually. As far as I'm concerned, my partner is the hottest thing walking this earth. Kinda hard for other guys to compete with that ;)
In MFM, as rightly said by Rouge, two guys can team up and enjoy a chick in various ways. Also two guys need not be gay or bisexual at all. Because both can enjoy the chick at the same time . Oral , anal, vaginal whatever they like.
But in FMF, the M cannot satisfy both. And hence both Females have to play with each other and there is no choice. EEK, is there any reason why some girls prefer FMF ?
I assume you mean besides liking other girls.
My wife and I love to do MFM threesomes. The only differences is that I'm bi and we also have a bi male play with us. Both of us males make sure that she is taken care of in all ways possible and she loves to see us both (men) suck and fuck eachother as while. i love to put on a great bi show for her first, that makes her really hot and horny and ready for two hard cocks. So bi or str8, MFM can be a blast!!!!!!!!!!!!
Are u sure , she enjoy you bi show. Bcoz I dont. Infact its opposite.
I like both to be busy with me. I like them to strip me. They put a eye blind on me for some time.. And play with me. I dont know whats coming next and who is doing what. Then, I wish, atleast one to start the real thing first and other can slowly join me .
If y'all enjoy it - go right ahead!