just a question, me and my g/f lead very busy lifes and do not get to indulge ourselves with carnal pasttimes as often as we would like. As such, it is not totally uncommon for us to only have sex 1 time in 4 to 6 weeks. The problem we really have with this is that when we go for awhile with doing anything she tires out after a short while because she will become worn out (meaning start to get sore) vaginally. That is ok, i can understand this and do not want to push her when this happens. But the main problem i am having is when we have more time to spend together sexually i want to prolong it for as long as possible. I know how prolong an ejaculation by slowing down and such, but when i do climax, and she wishes to continue (i do as well) i experience a strange feeling. It feels kind of like trying to insert without any lubrication. That dry chafing feeling. Also if i continue, i get a feeling i cannot describe going thru the inside of my penis. sorry do not know the proper name of the tube running thru the penis. does any one else experience this, or can explain what this is? thanks.
Tue, 02/25/2003 - 06:12
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Male multi-orgasms
She may indeed want to continue, but over a long period of time she may have started to dry up (especially if you have slowed down to hold off coming).
Easy answer is to keep some lubricant handy and apply it as needed. End of problem ...
The tube is called the urethra. The dry friction on the outside of the penis might be transferring an uncomfortable feeling to the centre of the penis (which is after all in a very sensitive state). If this is the only time it happens (when having "dry sex"), don't worry; the above solution will take care of this too. If not, and it is bothering you at other times, see your doctor.
Tikibonbon- this is probably a good one for Brandye, but I have experienced this as well and I think what may be happening is that your seminal fluid may be "washing away" the natural lubricant in the vagina. So, like ItalStall suggests, try some lubricant after your ejaculation and see if it makes a difference.
As a teen I usually brought my partner off a time or two before I took him in. This slowed things down, brought me more pleasure and he ended up with the several orgasms he needed. Do not do itall with the vagina. Especially with latex condoms, it can get pretty sore. Keep some lube handy; it can always be added.
I remember frequently, two ejaculates before, two in me and two after. Use some creative techniques. It is easier on the vagina and on the hips.