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Male masturbation + ejaculation! Please Help

Hey i am almost 14 years old and i like to masturbate like 4-5 times a week. I ussually watch porn before i masturbate but sometimes i don't!
The thing is that while i mastrubate and as SOON as i cum it feels AWESOME and i love it, but 1 minute after i am just not in the mood and i fell disqusted by the situation and i stop. So this happens to me every single time. Is that normal\???????? Please tell me.!!!

That feeling of disgust is pretty common with guys your age. It comes from guilt about what you are doing. There is nothing to be ashamed of or disgusted by. Masturbation is normal and healthy. Practically all men do it in puberty and many continue the rest of their lives.
Enjoy it.

thanks man. its not that i hate what i did, its that i am not horny anymore and that doesn't feel so pleasant... Thanks again
:)

The last step after cleaning up is to "roll over and take a nap".

i know man!!

[QUOTE=anonymousplayer;276820][COLOR="blue">Hey i am almost 14 years old and i like to masturbate like 4-5 times a week. I usually watch porn before i masturbate but sometimes i don't![/COLOR]

So far so good, although, I caution any person of any age not to get hooked on porn. Doing so can have a way of skewing ones ability to respond to normal arousal stimulation. Instead of watching porn videos why not engage your imagination and do more fantasizing? (Twenty years ago before the WWW the only X-rated videos were on VHS tape and available only from adult stores, so an adult had to get them. Needless to say we did not watch much if any as minors. By necessity we learned to turn ourselves on by dreaming up various scenarios.)

[COLOR="blue">The thing is that while i mastrubate and as SOON as i cum it feels AWESOME and i love it, but 1 minute after i am just not in the mood and i fell disqusted by the situation and i stop. [/COLOR]

It is also normal after a person ejaculates that we feel fatigued and sleepy, often turning over and taking a nap. The feeling of disgust sometimes follows also with kids in your age range, however, if you change your mind set about this (talk yourself out of feeling disgusted) you should be able to overcome this. The easiest way I've found to counter the sleepiness is to get up and walk around and get the "blood flowing" so to speak. It is a conscious effort you must make, though.

As for no longer being in the mood, this too should change. In fact you can probably help affect change by understanding that there is a refractory period {down time) of several minutes immediately following an/each ejaculation. This can be anywhere from about 5 minutes to half an hour depending upon a person's age and how he is "wired". After this time has passed we are good to go, again. At your age you should be able to enjoy what are known as multiple orgasms--two or more in a row--if the mood or need strikes you.**

Please read this article listed in the Index:

Benefits of Masturbating for Boys and for Girls

[COLOR="blue">So this happens to me every single time. Is that normal\???????? Please tell me.!!![/COLOR][/QUOTE]

We masturbate for the following reasons:
* for the pure fun and enjoyment of it and because it feels oh! so good!
* to relieve pent up stress and tension
* as an aid to sleeping

** Key to all of these is in learning how to manage each so that we do not overdo one need or desire and not have enough "stamina" for one of the others. In other words, if you like to masturbate for the fun of it, fine, however, each of us has to budget how many times we (can) climax in a day and save some orgasms in reserve in order to minimize our stress levels. If we fail to manage our needs vs. our desires properly, it can lead to several hours of distracting anxiety.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

[QUOTE=anonymousplayer;276820]Hey i am almost 14 years old and i like to masturbate like 4-5 times a week. I ussually watch porn before i masturbate but sometimes i don't!
The thing is that while i mastrubate and as SOON as i cum it feels AWESOME and i love it, but 1 minute after i am just not in the mood and i fell disqusted by the situation and i stop. So this happens to me every single time. Is that normal\???????? Please tell me.!!![/QUOTE]
Hi I was the same when I was about your age, I wanked nearly every other day and as soon as I'd cum I felt disqusted too. You're not doing anything wrong so just enjoy it. I still wank very regularly and I'm in my forties.

you are young and still confused by it all. Its normal. I went thru it

I feel like that now. So horny before I ejaculate but after, I don't even want to be touched and have no interest in it anymore

> I feel like that now. So horny before I ejaculate but after, I don't even want to be touched and have no interest in it anymore

YUP! this reaction is all quite normal. Nothing is wrong. Nothing to worry about. It all has to do with the resulting hormonal releases in the brain.

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