No. If I am there, I want to do the semen extraction.

I don't know... if I am doing somethign elsewhere, and I see/feel him heading down there, it kinda turns me on, because it means that I am doing something really good. Mind you, I don't sit there and watch him go all the way, at some point I will joing him, or take over.

I feel embarrassed just sitting there watching him. If this makes sense, I try just helping him get turned on more by myself masterbating in front of him while he as well masterbates.

Usually we masturbate each other and ourselves together, but sometimes to start it all off, we do it individually, but wacthing each other...makes me pretty damn hot!

Well, I actually help my friend masturbate when we get together as it may be the only way that i actually participate rather than feel left out on the sidelines. My friend has actaully complimented me on my "ball handling skill" after my first time doing this and watching him cum everytime since has been wonderful. He showed me how he liked me to do it and was able to bring him to the brink on more than one occasion which made me happy. Pity our relationship hasn't got a happy ending but that is another story.....

sometimes... but i'd rather be the giver... i usually start suckin him off if he starts playin with himself

Absolutely NOT. SELF-stimulation, AKA masturbation, does not belong in a healthy relationship. If you want to do it for yourself, or watch the other person do it for themself then you have entered the realm of VOYEURISM.

One of the most unfortunate consequences of the 1960's so-called "sexual revolution", along with the STD's that became the rampant result in the 1980's, is this false idea that ANYTHING is OK--- it's NOT.

I don't understand the logic of that being a horrible thing...would you say therefore that if someone "got off" on the look on their partner's face while they were having an orgasm, that they were "enter[ing] the realm of voyeurism" as well? Is that bad? Being aroused by someone you love?

Between beating off for someone else to watch in order to get off, as opposed to being aroused by a partners facial expressions or vocalizations or other responses...well...Tant pis pour vous!

I watch my partner masturbate, he watches me masturbate...it works out. its not like, he's sitting in a chair across the room staring all creep-like. since he can't bring me to orgasm, masturbation is definately a big part of our sex life. usually we lay in bed side by side, and we masturbate together, while kissing eachother and caressing eachother's bodies. even if he's the only one doing it, i'm comfortable enough with him where it's not weird or awkward and i dont have the urge to participate 100% of the time. i don't get jealous of his left hand ;-) and i know that he is turned on by me watching him, and he is able to see me naked, etc. ect.

masturbation can be a quick, wonderful and mess-free sexual release for both partners, and it's quite easy to experience orgasms at the same time. i don't see why it's so looked down upon or seen as "creepy" becuase really, it's just a form of sexual expression.

I agree, I don't think it's wierd or creepy either. I know everyone has their own opinions about what is "normal and healthy" and what is not, but I personally see nothing wrong with. And if the people involved and are two consenting adults - I think it's fine.

I think that I enjoy the vouyeristic aspect of it. I have never let my BF finish himself off from masturbating - I always take over, but it does turn me on to see him doing it. It just happened naturally in our sex life. He was fingering me and then went to jerk himself off at the same time. I thought it was hot, it definitely gave me a show to watch and it made me even more turned on to know that he was getting off to doing something for me. Sometimes even when we are making out, if I am teasing him and not getting in his pants fast enough, he will put his hands there himself and start to jerk himself off. For me it's a turn on. I also like getting the chance to see exactly how he touches himself so that I can imitate what he does, or at least pay attention to what spots he likes touched so that I can give them more attention later.

I don't think there's anything wrong with it, personally.

My BF and I are in a long distance relationship and we often have phone sex or sex over the webcams, and that is basically masturbating in front of each other. Of course we would love to be able to do more than that, but the distance doesn't always permit it!

I like to watch my husband masterbate. We only make it to the end without me interupting every once and awhile, but when it does happen I love it.

I don't think I;ve ever let my boyfriend finidh himself off, but i have finished myself off, for time's sake (i'm slow sometimes :()

Everyone one's different but I love making my gf have an orgaism, she makes me feel special and it usually almost makes me cum just from hearing her cum.

I LOVE watching Michael masturbate. I know he does it when I'm not there, but I'd rather be there to watch it.

He's never been able to orgasm with anyone before so when he and I started getting sexually active we tried a lot of things to get him to cum. We tried him masturbating in front of me to see if it was a psychological thing and it was. Eventually we adopted a back and forth method where I'd stimulate him, then he would, and that's how he was eventually able to get off. I'm the first girl that's ever made him reach orgasm and that was a big deal.

Since that experience of watching him do it to himself, I find it so hot. I found it hot then and I love it even more now.
Plus, when he's doing things to himself, I can focus on his reactions, his breathing, and even distract him once in a while. It's so sexy :)

My answer to the original question is NO. I don't like anything that is a break in the action. Watching a man stimulate his own penis is B-O-R-I-N-G (a la Joanne Worley of Laugh-In). And, thank goodness no one has asked me to stimulate myself for him to view.

[QUOTE=Revirginated]Absolutely NOT. SELF-stimulation, AKA masturbation, does not belong in a healthy relationship. If you want to do it for yourself, or watch the other person do it for themself then you have entered the realm of VOYEURISM.

One of the most unfortunate consequences of the 1960's so-called "sexual revolution", along with the STD's that became the rampant result in the 1980's, is this false idea that ANYTHING is OK--- it's NOT.[/QUOTE]
You hear that, guys? The only acceptable sexual practice is the missionary position in the dark.

[QUOTE]You hear that, guys? The only acceptable sexual practice is the missionary position in the dark.
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i think i would die....at least sexually.

Latin, (based on the Greek 'Agora') a marketplace: an assembly place for the discussion of public matters or of current questions; an opportunity for OPEN discussion.

See Webster's Dictionary (caps mine)

Isn't that exactly what's going on? You rebut somebody's opinion, they rebut yours. "OPEN discussion" often works that way when people don't agree.

Ladies: Do you enjoy watching your guy mastrubate?

:rolleyes: Incorrect spelling really tees me off...How the heck can you communicate effectively if you can't spell what you are talking about?
Or maybe it was just a "typo"?

[QUOTE=Revirginated]Latin, (based on the Greek 'Agora') a marketplace: an assembly place for the discussion of public matters or of current questions; an opportunity for OPEN discussion.

See Webster's Dictionary (caps mine)[/QUOTE]
satire n. 1. the use of ridicule to expose incompetence, evil, or corruption. 2. a play, novel, or poem containing satire. satirical adj

mas tru bate?

yeah . right. Mas tur bate is the correct spelling tyvm.

Some women like to watch, some women do it for him, some demand that he do it so they they can watch, and some don't like to even know he does masturbate.

I love it! it's so sexy, especially if you tell your partner that you're thinking about her, and what you want to do to her. maybe even if you both masturbate at the same time!

My wife likes to watch me while she gives me a bj. What she likes is while she is working on my penis with her mouth, she will move my hand over so I can help out. As I start to stroke myself she gets super turned on and she likes to take me to completion sometimes this way. If she asked to watch me sometime, I would like to give her a show, but that has never happened. So I enjoy stroking myself with her giving me a bj. I would love to watch her masturbate, but she has a hang-up about touching herself. It would be great to have a mutual masturbation session. The only time I can get her to do this is during oral sex. If she is really turned on, then I can guide her hand there and watch her rub and finger herself for a little while. Love watching her do this. So I'm hoping that someday, it will expand to giving each other a show.

My wife and I love to watch each other masturbate. She particularly likes for me to cum on her boobs. She rubs the cum all over and talks about hot cum. I love to watch her masturbate with a vibrating dildo.

I love watching my guy do it.makes me want to rub some lotion on him.it turns me on and makes me want to give him a blowjob.i got my Rub 'Em Down Kit from wantsomecandy.com.after that follows hours of pleasure...

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When spammer number 1 succeeded in re-awakening a thread that had been dead for 8 months, it apparently excited spammer number 2.

Do people like to watch spammers masturbate?

I like to watch and help him do it when I'm too lazy or tired to do it myself. However, I prefer to do it myself when I'm there...Over the phone, alll I can do is help him out....It's more fun to do it for him though.

In the beginning, my boyfriend occasionally finished himself off for the sake of time but it's been a long long time since he's had to do self-stimulation with me around. I don't mind if he does it, but he simply would rather that I do it for him and I would much rather that he do the same for me. (He's better at getting me to orgasm than I am and it's just ten times better!)

I don't think it's wrong to see your partner masturbate, and in the beginning of a relationship this is a good way to learn about what they like.

Good luck and happy handling!

[QUOTE=moose_hd;159365]Funniest thing I've read all day! Thanks! :D[/QUOTE]

yea now it's time to sort at least one out

Oops, never mind.

i thought it was gross n kind of like why would they do it themselves when you're RIGHT there to help out???
but it is hotttttt for some strange reason.

I love it. This is a huge turn-on for me to watch a guy masturbate. I don't know what it is about it though but it excites me a lot. It's also a big turn-on for the guy to watch me, so we do it at the same time.

I love to watch. My BF never had anyone who liked to watch before me, which I found a bit odd. But, to each their own!

i was just wo ndering if any straight men om here ever tried autofellatio alone or in front of your wife/girlfriend. if so do you think its gay?

DW and I love to watch each other masturbate. She loves for me to cum on her boobs. She also likes to watch male masturbation on DVD'S. Wow is she hot!!

i like it. a lot :p

do you enjoy watching guys performing autofellatio?

[quote]do you enjoy watching guys performing autofellatio?[/quote]

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What's the point of that question?

[QUOTE=alban lusitanae;176285]...

What's the point of that question?[/QUOTE]

I think he's asking if any women out here enjoy watching a guy go down on himself. And yeah, I find it very erotic.

I would not find it a turn on, it would do the exact opposite--it would turn me off.

I guess I'm going to cancel my bottom rib removal operation after reading Sera's post:D

I find a bit paradoxal that a guy calls himself heterossexual and then performs autofellatio... to tease a woman... Weird. Nothing against those who do it or against homossexuals, far from it, but it just doesn't make sense to perform a basic homossexual act in order to arouse a woman, at least IMHO :D now for gay men it might arouse them, I don't know...

[QUOTE=alban lusitanae;176627]... a basic homossexual act...[/QUOTE]
Um ... by the same logic isn't masturbation a "basic homosexual act"?

I see your point, but autofellatio it's a bit further down the line don't you think? Basically there are levels, IMHO. One level, for instance, is touching the anus; further is sticking a finger; another completely different is actually sticking a 7 inch dildo there.

If we consider everything to be gay in terms (and yes, I know we are all genetically bisexual) there are no lines. In fact, we all know (or at least SHOULD know) that the clitoris is basically just a penis that never was, the head of it basically. As such, what do we say, that we're actually performing a homossexual act by oral sex in a woman? No, although it is, in fact, physically speaking.

So, the only border / difference between a heterossexaul and an homossexual act / desire are these very slight gray areas that can be easily broken. I define a male homossexual act, so to speak, when there is a desire for a man's body, a craving for what defines a male body genital, the penis, basically. Stroking myself, well, doesn't ring a bell of someone else's body. Sucking myself... weeeeeeeeeeeeell... can't help to think that's a bit strange...

But again, that's just my view on it :)

i my self perform it but not in front of my girlfriend