Ok well i have been giving my guy head a few time now and he has never cum, he tells me he injoys it, but how long does if usualy take for him to cum? i know every guys different but how long does it take you or your guy? thanks
Mon, 05/30/2005 - 04:21
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Male ejaculating


As a teen, I had guys squiting as I got them out! No problem there was always more where that came from. Others I have sucked on for twenty minutes with no ejaculation but as I started to "take them in" they gave me the stickies in my pubic hair.
Demon says it all. It varies and some will come quickly with one technique and not at all with another.
Well....i've sucked my share of cocks in my life, and i've NEVER failed to get a guy off during oral sex when i include some anal stimulation. Yep, get a healthy tollop of spit or lube on your middle finger and rub his sphincter while u are sucking him...and keep rubbing..somtimes that alone will do it....then if you really need to....ease your finger in...that has always brought guys over the top who were "tough cummers"
> i have been giving my guy head a few time now and he has never cum, he tells me he injoys it, but how long does if usualy take for him to cum? i know every guys different but how long does it take you or your guy?
The answer is simple. The solution is a bit more complex, yet not particularly difficult. The answer involves "communication", the cornerstone of every successful relationship. The solution is for him to tell you what feels good, and, how he is responding to you touch.
Each one of us has since puberty developed a unique pattern of rhythms, pressures, and stroking that we have come to rely upon to bring us to the brink of an orgasm and then to takes us beyond the threshold. If these are not mimiced by our partner, the liklihood is that it will be difficult or impossible for us to climax. Now, this mainly addresses masturbation and giving hand jobs to our partner, however, oral stimulation is part 'n parcel to all this as well.
It would be nice if we could just plug into a receptacle on our partner's back that connects to the autonomic nervous system, but Mother Nature did not equip us with any way of having direct feedback so, we must rely upon verbal and non-verbal communication with our partner.
Oral stimulation works very well as an adjunct to manual stimulation. I recommend doing one or both to bring him to the brink of a climax and then definitely doing both to trigger his orgasm. Do not rely upon oral stimulation, alone, to trigger his orgasms--at least during the initial stages of learning each other's responses. Once you have feedback and good communication, you will probably be able to trigger an orgasm just from oral stimulation, yet it is the experience of many that doing a hand job and oral in concert is by far the best.
Well like you said it varies from person to person.
Some men and women can't orgasm from oral, they need intercourse.
Some are just the opposite and can only cum from oral.
If he says he's enjoying it, then don't stress about it