O.k. that's a new one for me. But if the making out is really good, I might not remember HOW to spell my name. lol

I've always found the best results are when you are paying attention to what makes your partner feel good. For instance, I have a "thing" about having my ears kissed, bitten or licked. Drives me crazy.

I do think the kissing stage should start off easy and gradually build to more passionate. I was once with a guy I really liked, but kissing with him was more like a wrestling match. It was very disappointing.

I guess my advice is the same here as in all lovemaking: As long as you are concentrating on each other and trying to do something to please your partner, it's all good.