Me and my GF have been together for a few years now. We both have little expericne with sexual intercourse we both were virgins when he got together. Sex is great everything except the main course intercourse. When ever we have sex its usally oral becasue both of us our inexperinced in intercourse. Its almost like the blind leading the blind.
Before the problem used to be hurting her then I sloved that. Then the problem was finding the hole we sloved that. Now the problems is after all the 4play and making out before intercourse I cant a STAY HARD LONG ENOUGH TO PLEASE HER.
I was just looking for some of the most basic intercourse tips so that I can make things better little by little. somthing eays to follow for a BEGINNER. I'm trying to do as much reading and learning as I can to make things right for us please help.
ahh why not just do her orally first as you say BUT DO IT WELL then go for a ride your self
1. Relax - this is not the Olympics and no one's keeping score. Anxiety kills erections as well as orgasms so...relax.
2. Focus your mind on HER.. note what she likes, what she dislikes, explore and experiment. No thinking about yourself.
Please find and read and then do the sticky post entitled The Program. Following those steps will more than make sex plasurable - it will make it FANTASTIC!
BTW it is "My gf and I" ...you always put the other person first...so you don't look like an ill-mannered lout.
As for basic how-to tips for making out and engaging in intercourse, this was answered in your other posts.
Please read the articles listed in the Index including those by EEK.
Thanks for the p/m.
If you can't stay hard long enough to please her then don't rely entirely on hardness to please her. It's okay to not want to do oral exclusively, but I strongly believe it should always play some role in the game.
give her an orgasm before you even put it in, also you can try the squeeze technique to increase your sexual stamina