Have him jerk off or give him head before you have sex. Then have him play with you for a while and when you are ready he will be too.

use a cock ring, always works on my husband, when you are ready for him to cum, take the cock ring off and then do what cums naturally.....

Practice makes perfect.

In general, reasons why guys get off so quickly tends to come from masturbating.

When men do, they tend to be in a great rush to get things over with. This gets passed on while having sex with similar thoughts, and hence many guys have problems lasting.

Have him masturbate, but focus on NOT cumming, stopping when he feels close, then restarting.

This isn't gonna have him lasting hours in the space of a week, but definately helps.

Doing what others have said also works, but being able to last longer and enjoy an orgasm together just feels so much better.

as I'd already said to someone else, if you feel it about to go, STOP! just stop what you're doing, tell him you want it to last and you want to take your time.

Couple things:

-When he thinks he is getting close, STOP all movement, then continue slowly.
-Cock Ring
-Have him masturbate beforehand.
-Squeeze technique
-Take breaks every 5-10 minutes and just make out for a while or have him stimulate you for a couple minutes, before getting back to it.
-Practice, practice, practice.

its simple but it works, Have him think of anything unpleasant when he is close. Oldest trick there is just think of anything that does not get him hot. It will slow him down some sort of give him asecond wind so to speak.

Fifteen minutes is quite a long time! on average a man lasts between 7 to 10 minutes during penatrive intercourse.

An American women's magazine did a survey a few years ago interviewing only women. The question was: "How long did your last sex last from penetration to his ejaculation." All responses were between three and thirteen minutes with the mean and median near the lower end. Not scientific but quite insightful. Keep it in perspective and figure out how long you actually want him in there.

Sorry, folks, I did not notice this was a seven year old original post until after I added to the thread. I suspect peachy has a new b/f by now.

[QUOTE=Zool;110340][COLOR="blue">Practice makes perfect.

In general, reasons why guys get off so quickly tends to come from masturbating.[/COLOR]

How so? Masturbating slows a guy down. The more masturbating in a day, the more difficult the next orgasm. At some point masturbating too many times in a day, his body will refuse to respond for several hours.

[COLOR="blue">When men do, they tend to be in a great rush to get things over with. This gets passed on while having sex with similar thoughts, and hence many guys have problems lasting.[/COLOR]

I tend to disagree. Sometimes we desire to have a quick climax, other times not so much. We have choices and always choose one or the other.

There is a whole 'nother set of dynamics at work when masturbating alone and then when either masturbating or being stimulated with a partner while in her company! Guys are aroused to a much higher degree when in the presence of a partner than when home alone. This is the cause of the hair trigger.

[COLOR="blue">Have him masturbate, but focus on NOT cumming, stopping when he feels close, then restarting.[/COLOR]

Whether he stimulates himself or you do it for him, the key is for him to let you know when he is about to climax yet can still maintain control. STOP all stroking, stop all movement--meaning moving his penis--until the sense of urgency subsides, then restart.

[COLOR="blue">Doing what others have said also works, but being able to last longer and enjoy an orgasm together just feels so much better.[/COLOR][/QUOTE]

Amen to that!

[quote=CleverName] [COLOR="blue">Couple things:

-When he thinks he is getting close, STOP all movement, then continue slowly.[/COLOR]

[COLOR="black">(As noted, above.)[/COLOR][COLOR="blue">

-Cock Ring
-Have him masturbate beforehand. *
-Squeeze technique
-Take breaks every 5-10 minutes and just make out for a while or have him stimulate you for a couple minutes, before getting back to it. **
-Practice, practice, practice. [/COLOR] [/quote]

Speaking of practicing, there is also this exercise (including more info on the "squeeze":

Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation

* Ejaculating half an hour to an hour before making engaging in intercourse is an excellent technique for slowing your man down, whether done by his hand or yours.

** Taking a periodic break every ten minutes is an excellent strategy; however, this has more to do with a woman's comfort than the man's control. Many women report that after ten minutes of stroking, they become SORE, bored, and tired. If it is desired to prolong love making, periodic breaks from intercourse and returning to fooling around and making out is key, before continuing on.

-doc

Doc gives advice from the male perspective; my post is reality from the woman's perspective. Teach him about "Ladies First." He does not get in until you have been satisfied. And, do you really want the wear and tear of being pounded?

My ex complained that I didn't cum quick enough, but she also said that my penis was too small for her.

I agree with Brandye,the man should always aim to please the lady first.Then when she is satisfied it is his turn.I know one man who always puts his wife's needs first before his own.He says that he just supports her and gives her what she wants.I wish he was single and in my vicinity.I'd really like a man like him in my bed lol.

> My ex complained that I didn't cum quick enough, but she also said that my penis was too small for her.

Perception is 9/10 of reality. Now, let's discuss this: How long did it usually take before you climaxed?

How long is your penis? As explained in one of the articles listed in the Index, "normal" is a range. Depending upon ethnicity and genes, a normal size penis can be from about 4.25" to something like 7" If you ar smaller than 4.25" then she might have a legitimate complaint; on the other hand, she may simply prefer a larger endowment in which there is nothing wrong with you.

If you learn to become a knowledgeable world class lover, size will not be a major factor with the majority of couples.

I recommend that you read all of the articles listed in the Index and add the information to what you already know. Knowledge is empoweriing.

[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;264271]> My ex complained that I didn't cum quick enough, but she also said that my penis was too small for her.

Perception is 9/10 of reality. Now, let's discuss this: How long did it usually take before you climaxed?

How long is your penis? As explained in one of the articles listed in the Index, "normal" is a range. Depending upon ethnicity and genes, a normal size penis can be from about 4.25" to something like 7" If you ar smaller than 4.25" then she might have a legitimate complaint; on the other hand, she may simply prefer a larger endowment in which there is nothing wrong with you.

If you learn to become a knowledgeable world class lover, size will not be a major factor with the majority of couples.

I recommend that you read all of the articles listed in the Index and add the information to what you already know. Knowledge is empoweriing.[/QUOTE]
I was a virgin, I slept with her 3 times. The first time I lasted 10 minutes from the time I entered her vagina, then the second time I lasted longer. The 3rd time I lasted over an hour. She said that 5 minutes is more than enough for her.

My penis = 5 inches/13cm. I think she might just be trying to hurt me with that one, because she had a tiny pussy, to me it felt so tight inside there.

If she really cared about you she wouldn't complain.I certainly would have no reason to complain if i was with you Dankovitch.

[QUOTE=raunchy gal;264274]If she really cared about you she wouldn't complain.I certainly would have no reason to complain if i was with you Dankovitch.[/QUOTE]
Thank you Raunchy Girl.....I did go down on her and make her cum before I even put my dick inside, and I loved it ( going down on her ) I also touched her body all over and made her pussy so wet. I thought I was really affectionate with her. Sure it would be great if my dick had an extra inch or 2 in length, but I am sure the thickness is good.

....and I always believe that guys can learn from girls, so.......what is your most helpful tip for a guy when he is going down on a woman?

> > My ex complained that I didn't cum quick enough

> I was a virgin, I slept with her 3 times. The first time I lasted 10 minutes from the time I entered her vagina, then the second time I lasted longer. The 3rd time I lasted over an hour. She said that 5 minutes is more than enough for her.

Many women have reported back that if intercourse lasts longer than about ten minutes they become SORE, bored, and tired. Because you have lasted this long and longer, she may have a legitimate complaint, especially if she is not enjoying an orgasm or two during this time span.

So what is a guy to do if on the other hand he and or they desire to extend intercourse? The trick is to take periodic breaks and return to necking and petting for a few minutes before continuing. You can either remain inside and still, or, pull out temporarily.

Here are three recommendations; first, help her to enjoy a climax prior to intercourse, and if it is her wish later, an orgasm at the end. In between the two of you can enjoy as many as you want. Second, wait for her to verbally or non-verbally invite you inside; third, do not enter until you are on the brink of a climax yet can still maintain control in order to move around and get into position.

Many guys nowadays operate under the misguided misconception that the best way to an orgasm is from lots and Lots and LOTS of stroking. WRONG. This is the why for all the fooling around and making out that we do beforehand. By doing the latter, you will not take so long to climax, and, she will be less likely to become sore, etc.

Give all this a try.

[QUOTE=Ladysue;264174]Fifteen minutes is quite a long time! on average a man lasts between 7 to 10 minutes during penatrive intercourse.[/QUOTE]

Yeah I was going to say, 15 minutes is pretty good!