hi im fairly new to tossing guys off and oral and ive done both a few times with my bf..but im finding it rlly hard to make him cum! he sez he rlly likes it when i giv him oral n sez im gud..but he has to masturbate while i suck his penis. it's rlly annoyin...im so useless at handjobs. ive read the tips on this site but i need more ideas from ppl.
uncreativename
YYAAYY!!! Keep on trying.
[QUOTE=Quote (mmparks @ April 01 2005,10:33)]Your welcome.. and even if you dont make him cum.. you'll both have a lot of fun trying
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thanks! i think im improving...he sed i was very close this time round!
Your welcome.. and even if you dont make him cum.. you'll both have a lot of fun trying
[QUOTE=Quote (mmparks @ Mar. 31 2005,13:13)]I dont know what others call it but we call it brown bagging.. LOL! Here's my lame description:
Kiss him whike youre doing it or lick suck on his balls.. my guy especially likes a hand job while Im llicking the balls and anus. Try it !
use lotsa saliva, grip the shaft, put your mouth on the head where the top of your hand and lips meet and move up and down that way.. lick suck whatever floats his boat right on the head and use the hand for the rest of the penis. Dont just do that forever.. alternate with taking all of it in your mouth,.. and then just your hand while you lick or suck his balls. He may not cum anyway.. but I guarantee he wont complain
As for hand jobs... lube it up
I too say dont sweat it... closeness and intimacy is where its at.[/QUOTE]
thanks mmparks! will use ur tips!
I dont know what others call it but we call it brown bagging.. LOL! Here's my lame description:
Kiss him whike youre doing it or lick suck on his balls.. my guy especially likes a hand job while Im llicking the balls and anus. Try it !
use lotsa saliva, grip the shaft, put your mouth on the head where the top of your hand and lips meet and move up and down that way.. lick suck whatever floats his boat right on the head and use the hand for the rest of the penis. Dont just do that forever.. alternate with taking all of it in your mouth,.. and then just your hand while you lick or suck his balls. He may not cum anyway.. but I guarantee he wont complain
As for hand jobs... lube it up
I too say dont sweat it... closeness and intimacy is where its at.
[QUOTE=Quote (Alspals69 @ Mar. 29 2005,13:45)]Well, i do't claim to be a typical guy, but i can tell you that I am often luke warm with regard to receiving bj's. I have had incredibly bj's... but not very often. This is to do with me, not my partners. BJ's just don't grab me like they do so many guys. Now that i think about it, i do recall masturbating while being given a BJ once. This was mainly because my gf wanted me to cum in her mouth and this was the only way it would happen.
So don't beat yourself up over it.
As for hand jobs, i do like them. Especially if there is plenty of baby oil involved! Of course, this is probably just me again, lol.
OF course, if you are knew at this, you will probably find your tequnique will build as you get more experience anyway.
If i was your BF, i would still be enjoying every moment of it and appreciating the closeness it created. I certainly would not want you to worry.[/QUOTE]
hey al,
thnx 4 ur reply...
i spose i'll improve with experience! he says he enjoys wat we do though and told me not to "beat myself up over it" - it just means he cums evry time if he helps me...so i guess that's gud!
uncreativename
Well, i do't claim to be a typical guy, but i can tell you that I am often luke warm with regard to receiving bj's. I have had incredibly bj's... but not very often. This is to do with me, not my partners. BJ's just don't grab me like they do so many guys. Now that i think about it, i do recall masturbating while being given a BJ once. This was mainly because my gf wanted me to cum in her mouth and this was the only way it would happen.
So don't beat yourself up over it.
As for hand jobs, i do like them. Especially if there is plenty of baby oil involved! Of course, this is probably just me again, lol.
OF course, if you are knew at this, you will probably find your tequnique will build as you get more experience anyway.
If i was your BF, i would still be enjoying every moment of it and appreciating the closeness it created. I certainly would not want you to worry.
[QUOTE=Quote (demonbuttercup @ Mar. 29 2005,07:31)]Some guys just can't cum from oral. Some guys get off easily.
Just like some women can't come from regular sex or oral. All depends on the person. If he's enjoying himself, don't let it bother you.[/QUOTE]
thnx 4 ur reply..im just feeling a bit useless at giving oral...he does enjoy it...im just not as experienced as he is...so he's giving me tips! i guess that shows comunication tho! ne tips ne1 cn give me??
uncreativename
Some guys just can't cum from oral. Some guys get off easily.
Just like some women can't come from regular sex or oral. All depends on the person. If he's enjoying himself, don't let it bother you.