Hi Everyone,
I have been with my gf for 7 months now, and we have always had a good sex life. A few months ago, she swallowed after going down on me and said she wasnt that keen on it. Although the thought of it really turns me on, I understood and we didnt do it again.
Anyway, we had been apart for 4 weeks until the weekend just gone and we had been talking on the phone about what we were going to do once we met up and the subject turned to me cumming in her mouth.
When we met up for the weekend, she swallowed again. This time, she said she really enjoyed it. However, I felt quite guilty afterwards and although I enjoyed it, the guilt was a little stronger than the enjoyment.
Anyone else ever feel like this? I know from her reaction that she really did enjoy it and wasnt just trying to make me happy.
Cheers,
DaVinci
It's one of those things which is an "acquired taste". Don't feel guilty.
You are one the few lucky guys whose g/f would swallow your cum when she goes down on you. Like Sera says "its an acquired taste". You should not feel guilty at all. Its your turn now to go down on her and let her orgasms while you are eating her. This will show her how much you enjoy oral sex with her
Ditto McKay. Now go return the favor, and go slow and please her well!
Dont worry, I love going down on her and she orgasm's every time. I love her taste and its something that I really enjoy.
I think my problem is that she wasnt too keen on it, and I got used to that. Now I feel that when she does it, even though she says she loves it, its kind of against her will.
Thanks again.
[quote=davinci;184487]Dont worry, I love going down on her and she orgasm's every time. I love her taste and its something that I really enjoy.
I think my problem is that she wasnt too keen on it, and I got used to that. Now I feel that when she does it, even though she says she loves it, its kind of against her will.
Thanks again.[/quote]
We don't swallow against our will!!! :)
The first couple of times I tried to swallow I hated it and swore never to do it again. I think a big part of that was that my exes tried to pressure me into doing it, so it was easiest just to say plain no.
Then I met my husband and he never said a word about it. Then I tried to swallow and he didn't mention that either, it was the same appraise, no more and no less.
We talked about it and he told me that yes, the concept did turn him on, but ONLY if he knew that it turned me on as well. If I forced myself to do it, it would be a major turn off, and then he'd rather not have oral sex at all.
That has helped me a great deal. I swallow most of the time, because I like it and get turned on when I do it, but whenever I chose not to that's fine as well.
And that is a major point when it comes to women - or people in general; if one feels pressured into doing things or get critizism when we for once decide not to do something others want us to, more commonly than not we stop doing it -period. It's easier that way, so every blowjob doesn't end with him whining over the fact that we didn't swallow and "I know you can do it, please please" :rolleyes: That's just lame. ;)
Your girlfriend now knows that you are not that kind of guy and that makes her want to do it. Because she knows that you'd be fine if she didn't so she feels no pressure.
Hope I make sense. :)
[QUOTE=Orow;184546]The first couple of times I tried to swallow I hated it and swore never to do it again. I think a big part of that was that my exes tried to pressure me into doing it, so it was easiest just to say plain no.
Then I met my husband and he never said a word about it. Then I tried to swallow and he didn't mention that either, it was the same appraise, no more and no less.
We talked about it and he told me that yes, the concept did turn him on, but ONLY if he knew that it turned me on as well. If I forced myself to do it, it would be a major turn off, and then he'd rather not have oral sex at all.
That has helped me a great deal. I swallow most of the time, because I like it and get turned on when I do it, but whenever I chose not to that's fine as well.
And that is a major point when it comes to women - or people in general; if one feels pressured into doing things or get critizism when we for once decide not to do something others want us to, more commonly than not we stop doing it -period. It's easier that way, so every blowjob doesn't end with him whining over the fact that we didn't swallow and "I know you can do it, please please" :rolleyes: That's just lame. ;)
Your girlfriend now knows that you are not that kind of guy and that makes her want to do it. Because she knows that you'd be fine if she didn't so she feels no pressure.
Hope I make sense. :)[/QUOTE]
Orow, I have two points.
1. You are completely right in what you say. When we dont feel pressured, we can make a free and honest choice. I think that its the fear that it doesnt turn her on that makes me feel a little guilty, but I am sure I will get over myself.
2. Your English is absolutely perfect!
Dan