So I was dating this one girl for around two years and we did everything but sex. I'd made her orgasm and vice versa, but I knew that sometimes after only a few minutes I would feel like finishing so I would have to hold it off, or just ask her to stop. Well now we broke up and I was still a virgin until a couple nights ago. I knew who I was getting hooked up with, and from the few times that I had taken trams (a muscle relaxent) before I knew that it would keep me from finishing. So I took them and they worked. I had an erection but I couldn't finish even if I tried. It was a lot of fun, and she had a few orgasms, but after 2 and a half hours I couldn't finish still. It was pretty awesome, but I ended up not finishing that whole night, and I was really pissed. I know we're going to do it again, but I don't want the same thing to happen. But if I don't take the trams I think I will finish after only a few minutes or so, which would be bad. Damn it.
Mon, 12/04/2006 - 21:20
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made a mistake...
your partner should understand your situation... once you 'ejaculate' after that it will take longer the next time..
The key is to relax and enjoy it. do not worry how quick you are if you are quick.
All in All Trams is not the answer. your partner would rather u ejaculate quick than not at all
Are you using condoms? I don't understand why you are preventing yourself from orgasm. Is this your idea of pregnancy prevention? If it is, BAD IDEA. If not, I don't get it.
He wants to last as long as possible, browneyedgirl, but not orgasming is the pits!
Guy, it isn't about lasting loger, it is about recovering faster so you can get more orgasms in the same amount of time while still lasting long enough to please her.
Yeah, definitely. i think it's retarded how guys assume they can only cum one time. unfortunately, I have about the same problem without taking anything as you do on drugs. but if i could, i would cum in five minutes, cuddle some, make out some, fondle some and then hit it again (and again probably) instead of going for 45 minutes before finally reaching climax (if it even happens)as is my problem now. don't rely on drugs to maintain stamina, and don't be a lame one and done guy. 2 orgasms are better than one.
EvilEvilKitten, thanks for clarifying.
I agree that lasting super long is not important. Most girls dont orgasm from sex alone anyway, so its better to have a lot of foreplay than really long sex.