ok yes as i say in all my threads i am very new to this so please bare with me if i get things wron whatever, and please correct me if you notice anything i should know. i've not long started sleeping with my boyfriend and i'm still not very sure or very much, we have never used lubricants before but we thought we'd give one a try today, i used this tingeling lube which felt really good for me, i was just wondering are all the other ones just as good as this one? when it tingled inside me it flt amazing and i was just hoping that there were more just as good, any advice on ones to try?
also there is another thing, my boyfriend never seams to be able to cum inside me, we have been sleeping together the best part of 6 months so i thought that by now we would have been able to sort that kind of thing out by now but we have no such luck so i looked on here and it told me that my boyfriends foreskin should go down, we have never tryed this before so i suggested to him that we try it ot see if it does make it any better and help him to cum inside me but he had to put it back up because everytime i touched or brushed past his head it hurt him apparently, should this be happening and will it calm down? and will he ever cum inside me and how can me and him help make it happen?
no ideas anyone? i feel quite messed up so i understnad why it might be hard to take in.
He is responsible for his own orgasm. Sometimes it takes time and some men who are uncut complain about discomfort when the foreskin is retracted; therefore, leave it where it is. Read Doc's posts on "The Gentle Art of Humping" under "New to sex". Should be using a condom...
As far as lubes Astroglide and KY are good. KY warming gives a tingling sensation and works well. If it does it for you stick with what you have used for now!
if he is uncircumcised and has not had much action right on the "naked" head it will be very sensitive he will have to get used to it, i believe your supposed to pull the foreskin back when putting a condom on, the ideal case is that when erect the head will naturally extend beyond the foreskin but many have a longer foreskin
Rather than messing around with the tricky lubes, how about vaginal jelly. It also includes spermicide and would make you a bit safer - especially when using condoms.