my girl and i have begun to play this hot game after getting the cosmo's steamy sex games card pack. it gave me a few ideas so i made a list of my own truths or dares for us to share. Check em out and let me know if anyone has other things we could try.
keep in mind we arent having sex yet, we are waiting until we are married
Lovers Truth or Dare
Rules: Write out numbers on a piece paper and cut them out and place them in a hat. Flip a coin to see who goes first. One person picks either a truth or a dare and draws a number from the hat and completes the corresponding challenge. End of game comes when participants are too horny to pick a number anymore.
Truths: Pick one and partner will ask it. If picker fails to answer they must allow their partner to write “sexual liar” on their butt with a marks-a-lot. (this way it is in a place where nobody will see it)
Dares: Pick one and do it, if the person who picks fails to do the dare they have to be on top for the current or next play session. If a dare is picked that can’t be done right away the other person must pick a dare.
Truths:
1. Have you ever daydreamed about having sex with me?
2. Have you ever been turned on about something I do? If so, what?
3. Have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror for other than normal purposes?
4. Have you ever been caught doing something sexual? If so, what?
5. Describe your favorite sex position.
6. Tell your favorite sexual fantasy.
7. What is the closest you have come to having vaginal sex?
8. Are you horny right now?
9. What one physical thing about me turns you on the most?
10. What is your favorite thing that I do?
11. What is one thing that I do that you do not really care for?
12. What is one thing your ex did or had that I do not that you still like about them.
13. Where in the house would you refuse to have sex?
14. What physical part of your body do you think I like most?
15. Sexually speaking, where do you see yourself in 10 years?
16. What is one thing you refuse to do that I do not know about?
Dares:
1. Either go commando or wear lingerie all day tomorrow (wearing just a thong does not count and you must show your partner to prove you are fulfilling the dare)
2. You get two options:
A) Record a risqué video for your partner to watch on their own and give them the video.
B) Record a play session to watch at the beginning of the next play session. Be sure to record over the risqué video afterwards if partner wants it deleted.
3. You must go pee while kissing your partner. Guys, your girl sits on your lap and is in charge of aiming your member. Girls, if you can sit backwards on the toilet topless as your guy tries to get u excited only using your chest.
4. Spend a little alone time in a sex store. Together go to the nearest sex store and the one who picked this dare must go in alone for the first 10 minutes and pick out something to be used for the next play session that you two don’t already have. Once the 10 minutes is up the partner outside can come in.
5. Give your partner the camera and pose for risqué pictures. Be sure to delete pictures that either of you don’t want to stick around.
6. Loosen up those jaw muscles cause your giving oral for the next 10 minutes.
7. When you are being played with you can’t be on the bed or lying down.
8. Next time you are in a public place go to the bathroom and remove your underwear. Come out and sneak it to your partner to hide.
9. Your partner is just a sex toy. Using their hand(s) play with yourself.
10. The goal is to strip each other. Wrestle around until one person is naked. The loser is the naked one and the winner gets to pick what to do next.
11. Take a naked (uncovered) picture of yourself and slip it into your partners wallet without them knowing. They must promise to cut it into tiny pieces and throw it away.
12. In your room, set a date that no clothes are allowed to be worn all day except to use the bathroom and go eat outside of the house but still no underwear.
13. You get to look at the list of dares and pick out one you want to do.
14. Girls: Next time you and your guy are at a large department store have him pick out some lingerie. Make sure nobody is around and take him into the dressing room and slip into the outfit. While he is entertained score on him quickly and leave. For sake of cleanup finish him in your mouth.
Guys: Have your girl wear a skirt and thong, for ease of access. Take her to a book store and have her read a dirty story to get her going. Find a secluded, low traffic spot and discreetly play with her until she starts to get too loud.
15. Have your partner play a video game naked. Their goal is to complete one level on easy so they can sit back and enjoy the pleasure. Your goal is to distract them by playing with them any way you want, however you cannot block view of the tv. Once the level is complete the act can move to the bed.
16. Sexual cards: You will need one deck of playing cards. You draw until you have at least one face card and one number card first of each will be used. First card’s suit is going to be used.
Clubs: Give him oral
Spades: Give him manual
Diamonds: Give her oral
Hearts: Give her manual
1-10: the number times 10 of strokes/licks to be done
Ace: until partner goes or stops you.
im actually kinda surprised nobody has said anything about this. i thought it was a fun way to spice up the experience but maybe im wrong
these aren't the actual cosmo one's are they?..I love this I would just about do anything for the cosmo list too.<3
no these arent the cosmo list ill post them later today
Lack of response by other's? Some of us just are not motivated to play games. If I am going to have sex, I'd rather just enjoy the pleasure & skip the attempts to entice. I'd rather play lets see how many orgasms one can have in a day. :)
i was just putting out there and thought some of them were fun alternatives. i wasnt saying lets do this instead of sex. sorry wasnt trying to imply anything
Sometimes lists are interesting. A while back someone put together a list on here of all the different things someone can try or get into. Opened my eyes! LOL. Try playing "Twister" nude!
lol i really want to, she has a twister mat in her room but school got out for the summer before we got to try it
Oh thank you..
another thing from cosmo that i really want to get is their water kama sutra book..i've wanted it ever since they had the teasers in their magazine a while back..
amazing what they think up..
but yes I would greatly appreciate the cosmo version also <3
[QUOTE=TheSenseMaker33;184098]but yes I would greatly appreciate the cosmo version also <3[/QUOTE]
Same here. =)
ok here is the cosmo version
To Play:
Drop all the cards into a bowl. You and your passion playmate take turns picking a note and asking "Truth or Dare?" The other person makes a choice, then must either answer the thrill-peaking question or follow the instructions for a walk on the wild side. Play your cards right and you're in for some frisky fun tonight!
Card 1:
Truth: Spill the seduction scenario you're aching to act out
Dare: Let me tie your hands. Now lay back and prepare for my sexy sneak attack.
Card 2:
Truth: If you could dress me in the naughtiest come-get-me garb, what kind of outfit would i be wearing?
Dare: Strip off a piece of my clothing...but you can only use your teeth.
Card 3:
Truth: Divulge a dirty little secret about yourself that you've never told anyone.
Dare: Be my sex slave for the next 20 minutes. You must fulfill my every risque request.
Card 4:
Truth: Tell me the most titillating technique I've ever tried on you and why it's so hot.
Dare: Work me into a frenzy with two minutes of blush-worthy dirty talk.
Card 5:
Truth: Give me a steamy play-by-play of an ideal passionate encounter involving you and me in a lusty locale.
Dare: I'm a sexy stranger at a bar. Pull out your best on-the-prowl tricks and try to pick me up for a one-night stand.
Card 6:
Truth: Describe in detail the dirtiest, most erotic dream you've ever had.
Dare: I'm a photographer, and you're my model. Pose for your own X-rated photo shoot.
Card 7:
Truth: Tell me the most taboo place you've ever wanted to get down and dirty.
Dare: Excite me with a sensual massage, focusing on my hot zones: butt, inner thighs...use your imagination!
Card 8:
Truth: Name a torrid technique I haven't used on you that you secretly wish I would.
Dare: Give me a 10-minute all-star performance of your signature move with a record-breaking finale.
sorry this are late. i had kind of a ****ty day yesterday.
[QUOTE=sera300;184042]Lack of response by other's? Some of us just are not motivated to play games. If I am going to have sex, I'd rather just enjoy the pleasure & skip the attempts to entice. I'd rather play lets see how many orgasms one can have in a day. :)[/QUOTE]
lol Sera300 I am on the same page as you on this one
as i said before i wasnt saying to use this game a substitute for sex just as a fun way to change things up if u wanted to. if u dont, ok fine. no skin off my back
Frankly a negative post about sex games is childish. Sex is fun. Orgasms are fun. But having sex the same way for 1 or more years gets a little borring nomatter how damn good the O's are. This game is a great way to make sex more of a sensual expierence while supplying our sexual needs. For those who are virgins and wont have sex yet this is awesome because they could take any intercourse stuff out and explore other ways to evade penetration. For couples who are not together just to ****, this can also help supply a great form of communication (which is VERY VERY important especialy for sex) in their relationship. It can help each of them figure out what the other lusts for, every little secret and every little wish, which makes for an awesome and interesting sex life.
Bravo to those who came up with the list of things to do, and those who are comming up for more still. Keep postin them :)!! Ill make some of my own!!
Malfestus:
For those who have been married for over 10 years, this idea does not work well since (unless the couple is living under a rock and don't speak to each other) we already know the answers! Foxdan & I are among those who have been married (me previously) for MANY years! So we find other games to do!
The OP wondered why other's did not find this game interesting so I just responded, forgot to mention why I felt this way; many times when writing we assume other's know our background.
I do agree it's a good way for those in a new relationship, or virgins, to get the topic of sexual desires out! To me the game is rudimentary, rather play naked twister, plus I have no issue asking these questions point blank if I want to know them of some one I am involved with. But this is only a comfort level which occurs over time. At 41, I will ask what pleases and expect an open answer form a man. Years back, well, it was a guessing game and there was no such game to get the answers.
Trust me even after many years of marriage you find ways to keep it interesting! It's ironic when you do the same old "sex" with each other out of routine, when over you look at each other and laugh b/c you both realize you have become boring or routine!
The "how many times one can orgasm in one day" is good for those who have many years with another, and only during a really snowy day where there is nothing else to do b/c you are snowed it!
A while back someone on here posted all the "sex" interests possible. That was a good list for those looking for something new to do. Some of it was REALLY kinky though! :) It's good if you know each other well and want to experiment out of the realm. I would not give it to a new gf or bf, only someone you need some spice with to see their limits! If I can find it, I'll put it up here.
Honestly, I felt bad for the OP, he wondered why there was not more enthusiasm and I meant part may be due to the duration of the relationship!
Lol you have a point with all the marriage stuff, I have no freaking clue about all that and probably wont for a long time.
[quote=Malfestus;184545]Lol you have a point with all the marriage stuff, I have no freaking clue about all that and probably wont for a long time.[/quote]
You'll know in time! Trust me over time some boredom sets in so you find ways to entertain each other. It's bad when you look at each other and say "we have become boring"! LOL. Then you find kink or something to spice it up! Enjoy your freedom!
[QUOTE=sera300;184548]You'll know in time! Trust me over time some boredom sets in so you find ways to entertain each other. It's bad when you look at each other and say "we have become boring"! LOL. Then you find kink or something to spice it up! Enjoy your freedom![/QUOTE]
Good idea we should start a new post [COLOR="RoyalBlue">“how did you spice up your 10 year marriage”[/COLOR]For all us out there that are married for a long time:rolleyes:
[quote=foxdan;184607]Good idea we should start a new post [COLOR=royalblue]“how did you spice up your 10 year marriage”[/COLOR]For all us out there that are married for a long time:rolleyes:[/quote]
Yeah, "what's the strangest thing you and your spouse have done when married for 10 years or more?Or how to find some new kink to the old ways" LOL! It's called imaginations!
LOL i really like that idea!!
[quote=Malfestus;184696]LOL i really like that idea!![/quote]
One thread I want to create is "What is the strangest sex experience you have ever had?" I would be curious to see the results, everyone has to has had one very odd one!
[QUOTE]3. You must go pee while kissing your partner. Guys, your girl sits on your lap and is in charge of aiming your member. Girls, if you can sit backwards on the toilet topless as your guy tries to get u excited only using your chest.
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LOL
This one is kind of strange.... I wouldn't really want someone fondleing me while I am trying to go to the bathroom
And why is the guy sitting down to pee?!?
and why are you in his lap?!? :p
lol my gf gives me greef that i close the door when i pee so that one was for her. she has no problem peeing infront of other people so i tried to make it interesting. there were things that i dont like to do (like #3) and there are things she doesnt really want to do. thats why it would be fun. people can post ideas for sex games thats fine. im not limiting it to just non sex, but i just wanted people to know that i was looking mainly for non sex games for us to try out.
sera when u suggested naked twister u contributed and u have my thanks. ive wanted to try that with her for awhile but we never have time to set it up.
My boyfriend and I are in a similar situation as you two (no sex before marriage, etc) so I really liked this post. I'm gonna try to think of some new ones for you, but for now, I just wanted to tell you I loved your ideas and we're probably gonna steal a few of them!
go for it thats what its here for
Try the naked Twister yet?
This even works well for those who have been married toooo long and are in a rut; open a nice bottle of wine, leave the undies on and play--be surprised what "pops up", LOL!