i personally think that u should actually be in love with someone b4 u have sex with them but i have noticed that a lot of ppl disagree with me...do u think it is petty to wait to have sex with someone you love?
Sun, 09/18/2005 - 20:23
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love and sex
Sex without love can be great and lots of fun on a purely physical level.
But, sex with love transends great and fun to something soul satisfying. The connection that binds two people together in a way that nothing else can.
I think most men who have sex outside of love have never had sex while in love, otherwise they would prefer to be inlove. I know that is how I am. I absolutely regret every time I had sex without love. I thought to myself while I was doing it, "what the hell are you doing? this isnt fun." Every time.
I am a man, and sex without love is a waste in my opinion.
yes sex is better with love
Sex can be great with someone that you just have attraction with. It is just the waking up in the morning and feeling like crap that isn't so hot. Sex with a person you love and trust is the best. You love where you are when you wake up.
well ya when i said guys i was just saying ppl in general ya know like "guys" sorry i will be more spucific next time it didnt even cross my mind that it would read dif then i meant sorry....i meant people
There's plenty of girls that do that too. It's not just men.
I don't think it's petty. I don't however think that love and sex always go together... even if I wouldn't personally just randomly sleep with someone because that's just not my thing. I'm not a one night stand person or a randomly sleep with someone I don't know person.
I think sex is a matter of trust. Do you trust your partner.
I wasn't in love with my guy when we first did it. I did however trust him like no other to have sex with him and lose my virginity to him (he was note a virgin, just me.). I still trust him to this day.
I do however agree with the fact that it's much better if you care for the person.
I think you should love the person before you have sex with them but sometimes the amount of alcohol you've had may lead you to believe you love the person...LOL.
I'm kidding, I have had one night stands before and I have loved someone while having sex and the sex was definately better with love involved.
Some people (men) don't really rely on love to have sex with someone. A few of them will have sex with anything that breathes.
i think that yes you should love the person. to me sex is a very passionate thing and its a million times better when you love the person
lol i know a few guys that do that