Hi everyone,
Something pretty weird happened today. Okay, so I'm a 16-year-old virginal Asian
girl. Today, my boyfriend and I tried to have sex. I trust him completely, he's 16 as well, he knows what he's doing (pretty experienced) and we used a condom.
Right so, apparently my vagina is pretty small. I've never used a tampon before, and we only started fingering me for maybe two months. But you're never gonna get anywhere if you don't work at it right?
So today, he tries ramming it in there a few times (doesn't work out very well, pain and the like) and asks me to switch onto my hands and knees cause I dunno, maybe that position would work better?
And then he completely stops. And there's blood EVERYWHERE. All over his penis, all dripping down my thighs, all over the carpet. Poor kid is completely freaked out and I'm just confused. I ended up sitting on the toilet bleeding a liter of blood and cracking the **** up.
Really, he only got maybe 3 inches in there. I dunno if he's big, (he's white?) maybe 7 inches? 2 inches thick?
It's not my period... so what the hell just happened? I understand that you bleed when your hymen is ripped. In my understanding, it's a little blood, a little pain, whatever. But I was SPEWING blood, the blood flow didn't stop for 10 minutes.
Did he rip an artery? Am I a virgin? And how can I make it so we can.. have sex? Ever?
What happened??
Sat, 11/18/2006 - 03:00
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lots and lots of blood???
> I trust him completely, he's 16 as well, he knows what he's doing (pretty experienced)
Well, as you relate what happened, I do not believe he knows dittley squat.
> So today, he tries ramming it in there a few times (doesn't work out very well, pain and the like)
This just goes against everything I have written on the matter. What he did is just wrong, why you permitted it is beyond me.
Please do some reading on this Board. Your questions have been asked and answered many times. I just don't feel like tackling this again tonight. I think the the two of you should wait about four years.
oh cmon doc sentence them to only two years,
seriously lemon saint if he asked you to get on your hands and knees to make it easier he can't be experienced or he may be experienced but has little real knowledge. it is advisable you both read this board thoroughly
You know what, Doc, that is a damn good point. I reread what I had typed and the ridiculous-ness of it all is rushing down on me.
I'm glad we stopped and I think I'm going to stop assuming he knows what he's doing..
Please read this thread. I added my comments to it earlier today.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/dating_and_new_relationships/19176-first...
A relationship between two people works best if it is a partnership and team effort with both parties wanting to be in it freely. A sexual relationship is also a partnership, it is not what one person does to the other; rather, what each does with and for the other. Previous experience equates to knowledge, not skill. Whenever two people come together for the first time, there will be a new "Square One" from which to begin. This being the case, why don't the two of you learn together? There is much information on the Board, not just the forums and there are the usual sex manuals that you can read. Two internet sites that I recommend for teens are:
www.scarleteen.com
Mostly for girls
http://members.optusnet.com.au/~austbua/
For boys
There is one heads up bit of information I want to tell you about boys. Most young teens will say anything in order to promote their chances of getting into a girls panties. The reason has more to do with getting their rocks off and perhaps taking a scenic tour of the area than for what girls hope for which has more to do with the emotional component between them. More than one girl has given in to a boys demands and pressure only to be left wondering what happened after he never calls again, or worse, doesn't even acknowledge her in the school hallway after that. Be ware, is all I'm saying.
I do not know why you were bleeding that much, although, it might have been a broken capillary. A torn hymen usually does not bleed all that much, just enough to put a big stain on the sheet or towel, if that.
Are you a virgin? Probably not at this point, although the issue is debatable.