my wife has lost all interest , in having sex.she tells me that im great at making love to her but she has lost the interest in it.She is only 41 years old. she wants to get the interest back into her life. The cause is i dont know, but been told it is not me.I'm looking for some suggestion to help her out.
Tue, 12/19/2006 - 01:23
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lost interest
She should go to hr ob/gym and find out what happened to her libido. Her hormones could be playing her up at that age although it may seem young.
Then take an objective look at her workload and her stress level. How fit and happy is she in general? See what you can do about those things that might be tiring/stressing her out.
She wants her desire back? Excellent! Nice to hear of a wife who sees the problem and wants to fix it! Good luck!
Once again, I'm with Evil on this one. I would, however, focus more on what's potentially going on in her head. At 41, it would be rather rare that she is having hormonal issues, although definitely rule that out. If she is willing to have some lab drawn and get a work-up done, fantastic. If she doesn't think that's the issue or is unwilling, dive in head first and try to figure out what's going on in her head. Having lived through the same thing, and with a very poor outcome, I might add, don't let it go.
Well? What's the current situation? Some feedback would be nice.
I agree with seeing the OB/GYN MD--ASAP! Moreover, if the MD is a female they seem to be more understanding of libido issues. At 41 a womans testosterone level can drop which will decrease the sexual interest. A simple blood test is the first place to start and if the level is slightly low, a testosterone cream (from a compounding pharmacy) can be used. Testosterone replacement, as any HRT, has side effects but if monitored closely can be safe and effective.