I'm a virgin and me and my boyfriend have tried having sex before but it hurts too much. Is it normal for it to hurt too much? He's fingered me before and he got 3 fingers in but once he tries to put his dick inside me it hurts too much. Do you think I should go on top and try to put it in my way?..HELP!!! 
Tue, 10/04/2005 - 05:12
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Losing Virginity
For your first time (at least) you should definately make sure to have a lot of foreplay... I can't testify to anything about fingering but I would definately recomend lots of kissing, heavy petting and oral sex on you...
You should be very "warmed up" and aroused before any sort of insertion is attempted... Using good lubes such as Astroglide would also be a good thing and can be picked up in any drugstore in the same aisle as the feminine hygene products... Lube isn't expensive and will make a huge difference for you, I'm sure...
Your profile also says that you are 16 years old and for some at this point your body may not be quite ready yet for sex...
If these tips fail, I've also had a couple of friends I know of who tried anal sex before vaginal... But before attempting this make sure you read A LOT about how to do it properly and also make sure to consult the age of consent laws for anal sex in your area... In some places it is not legal until the age of 18...
Here is a good thread here on anal sex, if that is something you decide to consider...
Anal Sex Tips
I hope these tips help you
hey , does he finger you before yous start intercourse?
because if he doesnt that could be your problam. so get him to get u lubrecated and loose before he tries to go inside.
Well I'm going to direct you to this post here.
I've linked a few of my replies to other people in simular situations. Read over them. They just might help you.