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i've tried having sex three times now. all three times i've freaked out and made my bf stop. one reason is because i don't think he can find my hole (he goes in to random places, sometimes he goes so low i think he's about to enter my ass territory). and the second reason is because when it does feel like it's somewhere in the area of the right spot, it hurts WAYYYY TOO MUCH. way. way. wayyy too much.
help?
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You should guide him to the vagina if he can't find it. I can't help you with the second reason, sorry. As a guy, that's not something that I'm really familiar with.
i don't even know where my hole is x(
I think you need to explore you own body before you let anyone else explore it, if you dont even know where the opening is.
Honey,
If you do not know "where your hole is" you have no business trying to take something into it. Do some learning first about anatomy and contraception.
If your panicing your clearly not ready!!! And you being scared makes your muscles down there tense up and hurt a lot me, when the time comes believe me relaxing makes all the difference!