i guess some people are just that way, even if they are enjoying something they don't say anything, so i think there is not much you can do there. My advice is: don't pressure her, try to give her time, a lot of foreplay, oral sex and do thing that will make her feel comfortable, "set the mood".

my g/f used to be like this and would not express how i making her feel becasue she was shy. After a while we got to know each other better and she became more comfortable telling me what she wants or how it feels. I think a lot of women are nervous and shy. Or maybe she is not in the mood or not being stimulated. Perhaps engauge in more foreplay if she will alow b/c usually the better the foreplay, the better the sex. It is hard to break in a girl who thinks everything is taboo and has such strong feelings about it. At least that is what i've experienced before. It is very hard to have very much excitment in the bedroom and makes for very boring sex! Hopfully it is just a phase and she will open up to knew things. Just give her time and be patient, who knows, she might turn out to be a freak and blow your mind!!

i agree, you need to be patient. ... i think that it takes awhile for a girl to get used to being a new lover. you really dont know what they like. for me ... when it comes to intimacy, im really shy..really.. now for the most part i feel even more shy and insecure because i dont have that much experience. but once you guys get used to each other..it should become more relaxed and comfortable so she can out grow her shyness...furthermore letting her know more than anything that you are willing to talk about it ...that is very comforatble...hope it all works out for the best

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Good luck!

my b/f says the same thing that he wishes i was more vocal and told him what i wanted and such. on the otherhand, i dont lay there like a dead fish. i do touch him and breathe heavy and moan some. so its not like im completely mute..lol.
just iniate convo by saying something like...does that feel good? just dont talk too much b/c when my b/f starts asking me 20 questions i start losing concentration.
one way my b/f gets me to tell him what i want is that when we'll be having sex he'll say now you have to tell me how you want it, and he'll just be thrusting veerrryy slow...so for me to get off it forces me to say " a little faster"... a few minutes later " a little bit faster" then finally im like "oh faster, harder!!" lol well you get the picture you might want to give that a try hope that helps

Great news Lou!!

Keep up the good work LOL

Unfortunately some women are like this. I'm pretty quiet myself because sex does not do much for me physically. I enjoy the emotional aspect of it but why should I be vocal when I'm not feeling much. Lots of women do not get much physically out of sex. Maybe the pressure you're putting on her is making it harder for her to let go, also.

Did you ask her if she was enjoying herself at all during sex? because if she's not enjoying it would you prefer she just pretend to enjoy it? That doesn't seem ideal to me. Maybe you could try asking her what works for her and what you could do to make it so she got the most enjoyment out of it. Atleast for me sex is only worth it when both people are feeling good about it.