Just wondering if it is normal to lose an erection a couple minutes after penetration. The same thing has happend during doggy style and missionary. I've read on other boards and I know it's "all mental," but thanks for your help
Mon, 05/09/2005 - 22:40
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Losing Erection after penetration
Huh. well, actually im glad to read this. I was with a guy a couple of months ago that this happened to. I asked him why and he said that he was really nervous. Also, it can happen if youve had too much alcohol, if youre high or if you are way too stressed out about something. Have the girl go down on you first, so youre very hard and excited, this should help. Try not to think about anything but how good it feels, dont think about anything else. If you start worrying about it happening again, chances are it will. Just relax and let yourself fall into rythm, try to let go of all the stress of the day and dont worry about performance. chances are, youre going through a rough time (breakup, tough time at work, family trouble) and youre bringing it into the bedroom. Good luck and I hope this helps, and dont feel bad, it happens to every guy once in a while.
Nah...I lost it like a couple minutes after starting, nowhere close to orgasm. It's not like it happens all the time, but it has happend a couple times recently.
Everyone is different. I am sure some people lose their erection. do you lose your erection after you have orgasmed? or just after a couple minutes of penetration without orgasm?
-Mariah
that's never happend to me...sorry I can't help you out.