Well there is this woman that I know kinda well and she asked me if I would join her and her husband in a threesome. Now I am of consent age and I think she is pretty hot and I think I am ready to lose my virginity but my first time also being a threesome? She said that her husband and her can only have sex with other partners if it was in a threesome so I'm not sure what I should do. :s
Sat, 05/07/2011 - 04:10
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Lose virginity in a threesome?
I would have agree with the above statement, you cant really just loose it like that, have some fun first then upgrade to say, lol
Does she know youre a virgin? Do you know her husband well? I think it may sound good to you but in reality it isn't. You are going to be some what nervous your first time. On top of that your going to be seeing a guy naked and having sex right in front of you. That is kind of weird! Most likely you are going to cum quickly and will be probably be embarrassed by that. This is just my opinion but why would you want to share for your first time? Get some experience and maybe the oppurtunity will come up again.
My recommendation is to save yourself for a girlfriend, gain some experience, then consider this in a year or two or three.
They probably want sex for sex sake, however, without experience, I think you'd be opening yourself up for some complexities you are not prepared for.
This sounds like a mess. My advice is to avoid it.
Ok if she brings it up again I'll just tell her it was a nice offer but I can't.
It would be much better to lose your virginity with someone you really care about.While a threesome may be fun,it can be very confronting at first,and you may not even like it once you try it.
PFFT - actually a threesome is NOT the best way to lose your virginity.
Why? Because this is going to be a threesome where the focus is upon fulfilling HER desires - an MFM does that - you would not get the support you'd need.
Just think of it - he's more experienced and is not going to wilt when in the same room with another male. You might. You don't know these things until you're in that situation. She's going to be expecting more than you may be able to deliver due to your lack of hands-on experience.
All in all - tis a great way to blast your ego and your confidence to bits.
DON'T say "Sorry, I can't."
Just say "No, thank you very much."
You should go separate for sex no with any other.