I know from the past if the female is too wet and you try to rub her clit, she doesnt feel it and the vagina area has to be dried a little to get the extra wetness from her so there is some feeling there.
It is amazing how a female from sex to get a good size wet spot on a bed.

No reason to place the blame on her; there are two of you copulating. All of our vaginas become little balloons when sexually aroused and there is a risk that you are only long enough to be in the center void. Most of the stimulation comes from the muscles surrounding her vaginal entrance and rubbing the sides incidentally. Try having her close her legs a bit and you penetrate less. That will place her tightest parts on your thickest parts.

Your title "loose girls" is inappropriate as this term usually refers to a woman of loose morals. Your question is quite different.

Yes, the vaginal vault does increase in circumference when a woman become aroused. That said, some positions and angles work better than others and because making love is a partnership, the two of you should do some experimenting with various positions and techniques. If you have not already found our illustrated animated sexual positions, please click on the site's Home Page for more.

Next, make sure you are right on the brink of climaxing when entering. For whatever reason, a lot of guys nowadays operate under the misguided misconception that the best way to a orgasm is from lots and Lots and LOTS of stroking and thrusting. WRONG! this is what all the fooling around and making out is for. You will find that your level of arousal will probably subside slightly as you move around and get into position, this is normal; yet your arousal will not be so low that you won't get the required stimulation to trigger an orgasm within just a few strokes. Key to this is for the two of you to give each other feedback on how you are responding to each other's caresses. Explore and work together.

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Thrusting, if done correctly, can be most enjoyable for her as well as for you but Dancing doc is quite right - endlessly thrusting without any skill is boring and only leads to sore tissues and bitter "why did I bother" thoughts.

To prevent such from happening the article entitled The Four Hotspots is something you should also read.

After this: experimentation and practice will solve your issue.

[QUOTE=Brandye;263125]Your title "loose girls" is inappropriate as this term usually refers to a woman of loose morals. Your question is quite different.[/QUOTE]
I was hoping that would be the topic of this post.:)
I don't know why, but I woke up this morning thinking of another question someone asked recently about whether there was a correlation between body size and vagina size and this led me to remember the most spacious vagina (width wise) that I have ever had the immense pleasure of knowing.

Some experts tell us that there is very little size variation from one vagina to the next, that what we perceive as "looseness" or "tightness" is actually a reflection of lubrication. From my own experience I know for a fact that there are real size variations.

Brandye's suggestion of her closing her legs a bit is a classic prescription for a larger vagina or smaller penis issue. I suggest that you enter her in missionary position and then have her close her legs. I will second dancing doc 2's assertion that you need to experiment with positions to find out what works best for the two of you. You may find that with your current partner you are able to use positions that you haven't been able or won't be able to use with anyone else! Again from my own experience I have found that an ample vagina can be a lot of fun if you are willing to play around with it.

You might induce your partner to do kegel excercises which will give her more muscle tone in the pelvic floor muscles. You can introduce it to your sex play so it doesn't seem like you are saying " hey you have a loose pussy." She might enjoy playing with ben wa balls which are said to be a fun way to do kegels and add tone to the vaginal muscles.
[url=http://www.benwaballs.net/how_to_use_ben_wa_balls.html]How to Use Ben Wa Balls

A nice alternative to Ben-Wa Balls is a yoni-egg, made out of germ stone :)
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexual-health-women/28956-ever-tried-yon...

I've been a bit confused about comments on vagina's as well... Not as much by experience, but by the logic that if there exist larger and smaller penises, fingers, feet, noses, , than why not vagina's? And that the balloon-like-mechanism may cause some vagina's to expand more than others? Isn't that bit of difference between people just plain normal? "Normal" is usually a range on a scale, not a pinpointed location on the scale...

I can understand how people could become scared of being "different". How people could even start blaming or making fun of each other (which is wrong, wrong, wrong!). But does that mean we should deny that there are differences? Or should we learn how to acknowledge these differences and celibrate? :)

Red Roses I am all for acknowledging those differences and celebrating. Of course you have noticed how insecure most men seem to be about penis size and the typical refrain that what is more important is how the penis is used than the size. I feel the same way about vaginas. I prefer a woman with a roomy vagina who knows how to use her PC muscle and knows how to move and knows what positions are good for her over a woman who has a small vagina, but does nothing interesting with it.

And as the degree of arousal varies, so too does the amount of vaginal expansion.

DLB, I had understood from your first message that you are celebrating! :)

My bf has had several girlfriends before me and I apparently am very tight; he can clearly feel the walls, even though my vagina does expand noticeably... On top of that; I have very strong PC-muscles. I actually had to learn how to relax and control them. Had I not, he would have never entered, not even a finger... :o

It's called squirting, Duh!!!!

yeah it is squirting and still different if your not used to it

I have had that before where the female was so wet that i couldnt cum or get any feeling to get that.
What i found does help is having the female rub her clit and you being on top. Maybe having her hand there rubbing her clit does two things for you and her more with more intense feeling with sex and rubbing her clit. The females hand will rub against your pubic hair area while touching your penis if you move close to her hand while its there.
it works well for me and something worth a try

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;263203]You know, this would have been a much more intersting discussion if it had been about women with loose morals - aka - those of the average male.

I believe that men should find women with a "past" much more interesting if only in the hope that history might repeat itself - with him.[/QUOTE]
As I said earlier, that is what I had hoped this thread would be about.:D

You know, this would have been a much more intersting discussion if it had been about women with loose morals - aka - those of the average male.

I believe that men should find women with a "past" much more interesting if only in the hope that history might repeat itself - with him.