Well I have only had sex with 2 diffrent men a fairly average size around 6 inches and i wanted to know how long it took to get completely busted in....Cause when i do have sex he seems to get to a point where in the far back it hurts and i dont like it Will it always be like that and if not how long will it take to go away ...is it normal??? could it be his size... Im also afraid i may get to loose.... I've maybe done it like 10 times LOL yes im a younger person and that may have to do with it
** I dont wanna say my age thoe cause i already know i started to soon**
Mon, 03/29/2004 - 06:43
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Loose?
Demon's right on the mark!
Check some of the other posting areas like "new to sex" ..i know we've talked about this a few times before.
You also want to look up how to KEGEL: Here are a couple of links.....oh, dont' let the childbirth part scare you..it's about how to excercise your vaginal muscles to keep inshape down there.....good stuff!
http://www.childbirth.org/articles/kegel.html
http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/Spa/4502/vagex.html
well after 10 times you are definetly "broken in"
as far as it hurting far in the back.. that will usually always be there.
it happens when you get in positions that cause for too deep of a penetration.
when that happens, he bumps into your cervix and thats whats causing the pain.
you just have to adjust the angle by either moving your hips around to changing positions to find ones that don't hurt.
some positions of doggystyle do this to me. it just goes in too deep. missionary and me on top i have no trouble w/.
ok as far as getting too loose you have nothing to worry about. of course you aren't as tight as you were when you were a virgin but you aren't so loose that a guy will say oh you've had lots of sex, or i can't feel a thing. lol
usually, the only way your vagina gets stretched so much that it no longer feels good is if you've had a baby. usually more than 1.
so relax and stop worrying. from all of your posts i can tell you are a worry wart. constantly.
try to chill out and i recommend maybe taking wally's advice from the other post.
good luck.