I am 50 years old and a virgin. Despite having crushes on dozens of ladies and being kind and polite to them, I get nowhere. I know my looks have a tremendous amount to do with my failure with women. At 5’ 8” tall and weighing around 98 pounds, I am not blessed with a good body. I stopped asking ladies out many years ago when one made a very mean remark about my body and bad teeth. I really regret not taking better care of myself. I’ve heard people say that sex isn’t everything, but I’d like to experience it at least once. Prostitutes are not an option for me. I would be afraid of being robbed, beaten, or catching a disease. Any suggestions?
Tue, 08/05/2008 - 03:20
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Looks matter - Need advice
Have any female friends which may help you out in the sex area? Look on adult friend finders for an intimate encounter? And develop good social skills.
If you are self conscious about your body have you considered exercising to build some muscle? If your teeth are a concern visit a good Dentist. These are exterior & superficial though, learn to begin developing your inside. So, you were rejected by other women, not an excuse at 50 to continue the same path. Help enhance yourself and build some confidence in who you are. I do not wear much makeup, not naturally beautiful; however, I do take care of my body to be healthy & put on a bit of make up to enhance features. Why? I am not a naturally glowing beauty. I have to work out to keep in shape and to maintain my health.
Getting in good health & caring for your body begins now...for you since it's never to late. Work on the interior and exterior.
Join an interest group - sailing, book club, garden club, whatever, and you begin with at least some common interest. Pick one that is heavily female; a man in these groups is always an object of interest. You are coming into an age where single women outnumber men by a real margin and women have become more realistic in their expectations.
Thak you for the suggestions. I am going to join a bicycling club. I know that sounds a bit dull, but I like biking and people who ride bicycles seem nice. I hope it will help me build my body up and improve my stamina, as well as help with making friends. I'm tired of being weak and tired. I’m tired of being “me_and_me_alone”.
[quote=me_and_me_alone;220705]Thak you for the suggestions. I am going to join a bicycling club. I know that sounds a bit dull, but I like biking and people who ride bicycles seem nice. I hope it will help me build my body up and improve my stamina, as well as help with making friends. I'm tired of being weak and tired. I’m tired of being “me_and_me_alone”.[/quote] Good for you! Let us know how you make out! :)
Nothing is DULL if you enjoy it. It is actually a great pursuit with many benefits
for your body as a whole. A lot easier on your knees and ankles than is running.
Good for you and Good Luck. Be confident and realize you are a special person
in your own right.
Remember alot of women take spinning classes at the gym. It's just riding a bike in a gym, with lots of women around. Wear your shirt with the bicycling club name on it, you're warming up for the bike trip next weekend.