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If you are asking for a game plan or the A,B,Cs of do this first and that second, then you must understand that all this varies from couple to couple and episode to episode. As for generalities, these are spelled out in the long article on making out.

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Um I could have sworn their was one talking about alternating between the posterior fornix and the g-spot. Read the sticky labeled The Program, which will basically tell you to alternate between the two most sensitive vaginal spots (Massage g-spot with tip of penis till orgasm, then go deep and massage the posterior fornix till orgasm and alternate for as long as possible.)

I believe the reason there is no thread on how to please (during sex) is because most of the pleasure for a woman is due to the foreplay. I mean if you spend a good 45 min on foreplay vs 5 min, there is usually a lot more pleasure for the woman during sex (at least I have discovered that from various partners) And its generally easier for a woman to cum from oral than vaginal sex so that is why there is so much emphasis on it

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You will find it and a companion article under EEKs contributions.

Actually there are 4 hotspots: clitoris, G-Spot, anterior fornix and posterior fornix. I tend to NOT mention the anterior fornix because it is a delicate area that requires the utmost level of masculine skill to stimulate without harming.

You will find The Program under the Married and Long Term Relationship heading.