I was at a gathering a couple of months ago. Met this very handsome guy that made my heart soar...among other things in my mind. We try to talk on the phone everyday. Plus spicing up the phone is starting too. Trying to keep him interested. Im wanting to start on cyber sex by sending him erotic emails....or having him start and each of us add bits and pieces. What advice can you give??
Sun, 10/16/2005 - 14:02
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Long Distance relationships
Ok, so my girlfriend and I (krh8286) are in a psudo long distance relationship (250 miles) but I plan on moving up there as soon as my lease expires or if I score a killer job. Whichever comes first. But yes, talking on the phone all the time, being open about everything, and emails and txts and instant messaging are all things that can keep things fine. She was also used to long distance relationships before so she could coach me along on how things went and let me know exactly what she requires. It can be done, just remember to move towards eachother. Don't become stagnant.
That's an awesome idea! Plus it's private and personal. When you finish, you can print it and save it for a look back later on when you need a little "nudge" for some sexual sparks.
Writing a shared erotic story is lots of fun. We will type ours in Word and I will do a chapter and then he does the next one and so on. I always looked forward to seeing how he will change the direction in the story and makes me have to be very creative at times.
It's also a great way to discuss and introduce fantasies to each other. You can outline the basic plot and characters you are wanting for your story and then let each other have fun with it. The goal is for you both to write what you know drives the other crazy with lust or to reveil what makes you tick.