I am 15.. and I have had sex with 6 people... I personally think that number is way to high for my age. Mind you. I am not a slut... I just kind of fall for people fast..I suppose... I mean I have never had sex with someone that I wasn't completly willing to have a child with. So that makes it not as bad as it is right? Because I think 6 people at my age is a way too high of a number.. What does everyone else think?
Feedback needed.
.... and I intend to keep that number where it is.
Well, I agree... not so much that the number is too high (no point in regretting the past so to speak) but definitely support your intention to keep the number where it is.
On a slightly different point, if we assume that you are mature and experienced enough to decide who you are willing to have a child with... it would pay to remember that the 15 year old guy you might be willing to have a child with is not the same guy you will be depending on for the next 18 years of your life. We're all works in progress at any age, but the teen years are definitely about growing and changing.
Having sex does not make you a bad person. It is an important part of life and relationships. The fact that you are considering what it means and putting it into perspective demonstrates that you are growing and maturing - and that's a good thing.
I'm reading a little between the lines I suppose... don't rationalize what you've done, that's really not a good use of energy and it's not necessary. Instead concentrate on who you are and who you want to become. That can be a lot more exciting than sex!
Nicely stated, Wally.
Yes I agree 100%.. and None of the people I have had sex with we're 15.. and All of the guys I have had sex with are on a good and stable maturity level as am I. But thank you for the advice I will take it into good consideration.