It helps if you elaborate more, such as what you were talking about when he said that.

If it was a simple 'how's our sex life, is there anything else you'd like to try?" conversation, then he probably means that *you* make the sex great, and that while small gimmicks like a sexy outfit, blindfold, toys, in private public places, whatever add something new, they're not the main attraction. Some he may like and some he might not care for but doesn't say because he knows you're in the mood and rearing to go and knows that it'll be good regardless. That's a very good thing.

well the way i take it is that he would like an occasional "him night" where it's all about his pleasure, but don't quote me, he has the best answer to your question so ask your boyfriend

Just surprise him. Does he have to initiate sex often?

Act like you're going on an absolutely normal walk, talk about things that in no way could ever transition into sex, and then when he least expects it, jump him. If he says something about not expecting anything, and thus not having a condom, pull one out, give a roguish grin, and say "no problem."

Men, most often, just want to feel desired.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but having had similar convos with my bf, my guess is it was a convo like Fun was talking about. That being the case, he's trying to soothe your fear of not doing enough for him. Take it at face value. While little twists on the norm are indeed fun sometimes, don't feel like you have to continually dream up new and different ideas. Just because it's largely similar stuff you do all the time, doesn't mean it's unsatisfying.

I once saw Doc2 suggest changing the 'order of operations' when you run out of new things to add. That's a good idea. Instead of 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, climax, go 1, 4, 2...you get the idea. And when in doubt, add in some good old fashioned teasing. Do one thing until he really starts liking it, and then move to something else and come back in a little bit. Maybe even tease like that 2 or 3 times on a given thing. That has the added benefit of increasing the power of the orgasm he'll end up having from that maneuver, by the way :D Just don't let him get TOO frustrated with getting almost there and then stopping.

Sex is never, even with the same partner, never the same twice. EVERY time you enjoy him/her is subtlely different than the time before. Sometimes better, sometimes worse. If you are paying attention, you will see this yourselves. You really don't need toys, lingerie, games, whatever. All you really need is an education, an open and sexually inquiring mind, and the disposition to care about your partner.

For example: there is a difference in the the sex enjoyed afterwards when you change the erotic massage from light caresses to the heavy hands technique. Small changes can have huge effects.

I recommend doing one change at a time and judging the effects thereof before proceeding with other changes. If the change gets good reviews, add it to your skill set. If not, just tuck it away because maybe another partner would like it later on.

Little surprises? Children.