Me and my gf are both 19 and have been together for a few years.
She is on birth control, but she still makes me wear a condom. I would really prefer not to, and everytime I bring it up she gets pissed at me. I want to cum inside her and feel the comfort and convenience of not having to wear one..but she makes me anyway. How would you convince her to not wear one?
Also, she rarely gives blowjobs. I have a feeling she just doesnt like it, but to me its better than sex(maybe cause I don't get it as much?). I go down on her all the time and I love it, but she doesn't very often. She says it hurts her mouth...maybe an excuse or maybe true...how can I fix this problem?
[QUOTE=sexjeff]Me and my gf are both 19 and have been together for a few years.
. I want to cum inside her and feel the comfort and convenience of not having to wear one..but she makes me anyway. How would you convince her to not wear one?
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Very easy solution....MARRY HER....then you can go at it like rabbits!!
[QUOTE=Luvs2plzU]Very easy solution....MARRY HER....then you can go at it like rabbits!![/QUOTE]
That doesn't seem very easy...
I was thinking more along the lines of proving to her that its safe, since we dont have std's and cant get pregnant..but she wont listen to this logic haha.
[QUOTE=sexjeff]I was thinking more along the lines of proving to her that its safe, since we dont have std's and cant get pregnant..but she wont listen to this logic haha.[/QUOTE]
Good, because you're wrong. No system of birth control is 100% efficient.
I agree with her.
If you are seriously interested in the topic and not merely interested in not having to wear a condom, go to the Planned Parenthood Website. They have statistics there that should frighten you regaring the effectiveness of various methods and combinations of methods.
The BJ question has been answered a gadzillion times. Do some searching and reading and recognize that you need to be working this stuff out together, it's not supposed to be you "convincing" her of something.