well hears how it is.... im with this chick... shes amazing.... but omg. she is so tight... shes not a virgin but shes never really had sex... last night i was eating her out and after she came i was like alright ill try and finger her.... so i went for it and seriosly it was hard for me to get my middle finger in...one of my ex's was a virgin wen we first started messing around.... and she wasnt at all this tight... and im just wondering wut i should do... we both reallly wana have sex but shes scared that its gana hurt and im really not to sure what to do..... im above average in size and idk.... i guess i was just a little shocked..... n.e idea on what i should do wen we attempt to have sex couse other then gettin some lube and just taking it nice an slow theres nothing else i can really think about
Sat, 10/11/2008 - 18:01
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little advice please =)
lubrication should help and take it slow.
[QUOTE=mrhollywood86;226321]lubrication should help and take it slow.[/QUOTE]
I believe this is a problem that some women have, being too tight. I have read something somewhere that says you can get your vagina cut opened a little bit more if this happens. If it's as tight as you think it is and you can barelly get your finger inside her, tell her to go to a gynecologist or something and get it looked at. It's nothing to be embarrassed about, but I believe it can be fixed. Try the lube thing, but take it slowly because you don't want to hurt her or tear anything.
Has she been for an exam, by her gyno? That is the person that will be able to give her some insite that she can share with you.
Even if not a virgin, some women are just built smaller than others. However, the vagina does not expand into its fullest size until after she has been fully aroused and some women may also need an orgasm or two before they can relax into being fully receptive. The first thing is a visit to her gynecologist. Then use lubericant in massive quantities and a condom and then, following the steps outlined in the sticky post entitled The Program, to slowly slide inside enough to carress her G-Spot. Work your way in after each orgasm and see if that doesn't help. No snipping!
when she goes and sees her gyno have her ask him/her about it and if it's not a medical complication then it's just something your going to have to work on
she just went to the gyno like 2 days ago..... idk im just gana do wut i no to do.... lube that shit up n be very easy
I think the smartest way to go about this would be to help her orgasm first, then she will be more relaxed for intercourse. Please don't just lube up and expect entry...if she is as tight as you are saying, it is probably more that she is nervous and is unwittingly clenching because of it. You should also be spending a good amount of time (like at least a week) to let her adjust to the feeling of something inside of her.
Start with a finger one day. Then add another a couple of days later. You may even want to get a small toy to use on her (something like this would be quite nice for a beginner) after that, and then try for intercourse. Use lube liberally every time you two have any sort of sex play to keep things moving smoothly.