one of the main things with this i think is 2 have a safe word. so if ur doing something he doesnt like then he just says the safe word and u can stop and move onto something else. but id say just go with the flow and see what happens and it should be fun 4 both of u.

[QUOTE=faithful]. id ask exactly what im alowed to do but that sort of defeats the purpose. any advice?[/QUOTE]
Actually I think this is a good idea. You'd both basically be communicating and talking about your fantasies, which is important for enjoyable intimacy. Once you both get comfortable with your roles in d/s play, that's when you can start to exercise some gentle creativity and see how he reacts.

lol "safe word" reminds me of the film Eurotrip :D

you could ask him what is his dominatrix fantsy. then devote a night to that and then the next night perform one of your fantasies
if you dont want to ask the just start slow with some "light" dominatrix and build up from there.
personally i like the feeling of not being incontrol and being tied/ handcuffed to the bed :)

yeh, if this is your first time doing that sort of thing, i would suggest you keep it a little basic. handcuffs and a little whip or them sort of things. I havent tried the dominatrix stuff yet, but thats what i would like to start out on :)

Well, being guy... I personally love most things involved with a girl who knows what she wants and goes for it. The dominatrix idea really epitomizes that idea. The amazonian warrior woman who is in control and is rediculously sexy doing it. All I can suggest is, to be confident. You probably won't do anything he's not thought up of already, considering he's the one who brought up the fantasy in the first place.

Dominatrix...creepy..I've never liked that sorta thing...I prefer the norm..boring I know :P