I've been going out with my girlfriend now for about 6 weeks, i love her to bits, she is my first sexual partner. I know 6 weeks seems like a short time to be in love with someone, but i can just feel it, she tells me she loves me also.
However we're (me actually) having a little trouble in the bedroom... We've had sex sucessfully twice so far, both times when no-one was in the house, once was even after we shared a bath and we had sex on the bathroom floor no problem!
We've tried to have sex alot of times when there is people in the house but when i come to enter her, i go limp. I think its nerves but its happened like 10 times now and im getting really frustrated.
I want to be able to have sex with her when we both feel like it, not having to wait for everyone to leave the house, which doesnt happen very often!
Should i just continue to try having sex while theres people in the house and hopefully my nerves will go away? Or should i go see a doctor... ?
Im getting scared i may loose her as i am unable to satisfy her when she desires it. I do have total faith and trust in her that she wouldnt leave me over the issue as she tells me she loves me too, but its still messing with my head bigtime...
Help! 
just thought i let you know just in case her parents find out and aren't pleased...that's slightly illegal if you're in the states. also, the pill isn't 100% effective, especially if she misses one or takes them at different times during the day at some point (people on the pill are supposed to take it at the same time every day), so i'd still recommend using a condom.
Yea if its not working i usually go down on her or do some manual stimulation.
I also feel a little intimidated as she has had alot of sexual partners, and she sometimes talks about some of the stuff shes done with other guys, and it makes me feel a bit inadequate.
Another thing is that she tells me she finds it a huge turn on when having sex with the knowledge that people may walk in, knowing the fact that i am currently unable to do that is a huge blow to me, cause i really want to make her happy!
Im guessing i just have to keep trying untill im more comfortable with myself... ?
By the way im 19, she is 16 and is on the pill - so no worries there!
Yea....it's probably a combination of nerves and stress about being caught and/or disappointing your parents if they were to find out out u are having sex with yoru girlfriend at home.
Now, that said, perhaps you should look for others places you can be intimate NOT at home!
It sounds like you are both in your teens, so i just hope you 2 are using condoms, but, just relax....don't put so much pressure on "penetration" and look to balance your sex life with mutual masturbation and oral sex....much easier to pull those off in close proximity to parents.
yeah, it's nerves. all you can do is relax and forget that there's that chance you'll get walked in on or something. until then, i will say that there are other ways besides sexual intercourse to please a girl. the tongue is a great tool in doing so, as well as the hand. so try the sex, and if you go limp again, go down on her or something.