http://http://www.sexinfo101.com/pw_index.shtml

in the pleasing her and new to sex sections there should be ORAL SEX 101 stickies at the top
altho some techniques are universal, most women are different in what like enjoy from oral sex. Once you read on the basics... the rest is preference I would think. :)

Hello Vinny,
The suggestions, above, should give you a great start. There are a couple of things I want to share with you and others also concerned about the matter is this:

> i really want to give my g/f an orgasm

We do not give orgasms away to another. Each and every one of us is responsible for our own orgasms. All any of us can do is to help our partner achieve her/his own.

Each of us understands the basic mechanics involved in fingering a clitoris and stroking a penis; however, there is more--the "fine art" that is unique and specific to each one of us. Once we are capable of having orgasms and learn how to have them regularly and consistently, we quickly develop a pattern of movements, rhythms, and pressures that we rely upon each and every time. If we are off the mark just a little then the result will either be no orgasm or one that is less than desired.

You may very well be able to give your girlfriend some intense stimulation and she may very well climax from all that you do orally; yet if you learn to mimic the finger/hand movements that she uses when alone, then you will be able to help her have some very good orgasms. Encourage her to demonstrate how she masturbates, and to also take your hand in hers and guide your movements several times until you learn to mimic her technique. (The same holds for her with you.)

One caveat: Some girls do not learn to masturbate at a young age, or at all. If she does not masturbate and has not learned to and thus made the transition from "preorgasmic" then there is little you can do to bring about an orgasm. This she must learn, first and foremost on her own.