My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 5 months now. [We rarely have sex.. maybe like once or twice a month max.] Everyonce in awhile I bleed very lightly during sex. It's almost just like spotting, not actually REALLY bleeding. He is actually really big, 8 long 6 around, could that be why i'm bleeding? Or maybe the abstinence of sex for long periods of time? We've never had sex without a condom, so i'm pretty sure it's not an STD. Sex can hurt at first because i'm not use to his size, but I don't know if that could actually cause me to bleed. PLEASE HELP!!:confused:
Sun, 10/22/2006 - 05:35
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Light bleeding during sex?
What contaception are you using?
I would suggest going to see a doctor, you always want to play it safe when it comes to your sexual health.
Also, I can suggest that finger you prior to intercourse. This may help to gradually stretch out your vaginal opening. Plus it is just damn good foreplay.
Dealing with his *ahem* size doesn't have to be painful. There are plenty of positions you guys could try that would be easier on you because you wouldn't have a his penis bumping into your uterus *OUCH* and they would still be just as enjoyable because women only have feeling in about the first three inches of the vagina, men claim that they have more feeling, however, it's mostly in their first three inches too.
Believe me, it is not that you going two weeks will do any more difference than going for two days without sex. The vagina is a muscle and it relaxes back to a fairly small size for beginners.
Happy humping! Remember to talk to your gyno!