i love the intimacy of oral, but can't orgasm from my guy doing it on me..he still thinks he can lick my clit but it's too sensitive for that unfort. if he can't do this, HOW ON EARTH CAN HE GET ME TO ORGASM THROUGH ORAL IF HE CAN'T TOUCH MY CLIT DIRECTLY?!?!?! can someone please recommend something?! i don't know what to suggest to him...
thanks
uncreativename
[QUOTE=Quote (MasterBater101 @ Oct. 14 2005,14:49)]Don't worry, Uncreativename, he should understand, but if he doesn't say it would be like somebody dropping a brick on his penis. I think the brick thing would work[/QUOTE]
the brick thing would work? lol
merci monsieur!
[QUOTE=Quote (Brandye @ Oct. 14 2005,10:22)]Oh, that men would only understand...[/QUOTE]
Tsk tsk, you of all people. You are a lumper (see I do come up with the worst comparisons and phrases). I always use a slow steady rhythm.
Don't worry, Uncreativename, he should understand, but if he doesn't say it would be like somebody dropping a brick on his penis. I think the brick thing would work
[QUOTE=Quote (Brandye @ Oct. 14 2005,10:22)]Haven't we all suffered from battered clitoris' because men do not understand? Many women cannot stand to have their aroused clitoris touched. The pressure across the entire area or movement of the hood is what is pleasurable.
Men have a tendency to want increased pressure and speed right up to the point of ejaculating, then push and pump it in. Women tend to want more steady rhythm and pressure with, perhaps, some increase as orgasm approaches. As arousal approaches orgasm, the clitoris actually withdraws. Many men interpret this as indicating that you need more aggressive pressure. Actually, the clitoris is still fully engorged but with drawing to protect itself.
Oh, that men would only understand and stop battering away at an organ that has the same nerves as an erect penis all crammed into a much smaller package. Tell him or dump him.
Look around. The stages of female arousl are treated in Chick Chat and elsewhere[/QUOTE]
brandye u rock!!!!! that post is so reassuring and evrything is 100% true that u've written!!!
...im just gonna have to keep reminding him...i think he's just inexperienced...
thanx for posting those cunnilingus techniques acid_burn! it makes sense to read those...i mite b able to help him!
thanks again both of u!!!!!!
uncreativename
Haven't we all suffered from battered clitoris' because men do not understand? Many women cannot stand to have their aroused clitoris touched. The pressure across the entire area or movement of the hood is what is pleasurable.
Men have a tendency to want increased pressure and speed right up to the point of ejaculating, then push and pump it in. Women tend to want more steady rhythm and pressure with, perhaps, some increase as orgasm approaches. As arousal approaches orgasm, the clitoris actually withdraws. Many men interpret this as indicating that you need more aggressive pressure. Actually, the clitoris is still fully engorged but with drawing to protect itself.
Oh, that men would only understand and stop battering away at an organ that has the same nerves as an erect penis all crammed into a much smaller package. Tell him or dump him.
Look around. The stages of female arousl are treated in Chick Chat and elsewhere
maybe this can help you out a little bit...
http://www.sexinfo101.com/pw_cunnilingus.shtml