I have recently found myself attracted to my best friend, i can't hide my lust for her anymore, i need to tell her, what do you think is the best way to seduce her? She is a lesbian too, but i never thought she would see me that way... please help... 
Jessica x x
I told my best friend that I had a crush on him by text.
I know thats the most chicken thing in the world but I had decided to tell him the night of my b'day party. So after the party we all crashed at my place (all being my closest core friends) we mucked around, chatted and shit, then after lights out I texted him, while he was in the bed next to me - less than 12 inches away.
It worked really well cause he didnt have to face me straight away, and the others had no idea what was going on, (ie we didnt go and have a secret little chat with onlookers ect)
it gave him the ability to collect his thoughts, with out having to respond face to face straight away.
maybe what I'm saying is do it in writing, give her a card, or a note... or even a text. All I said was "I have something to say that has the ability to make our friendship a bit strange, but I really like you"
it worked out well.
I would talk to her first. Let her know how you feel. Say aomething like..."I have to talk to you. This is kinda hard for me. I have feelings for you." Just be straightforward with it.
I'm bi. I had feelings for my high school best friend. She knew me so well that she guessed what was going on. We wound up making out that new years, but nithing came from it- she had a bf at the time and i moved. Now she is goiing on her one year aniversarry with her new bf, and i have been with my bf for a while.
But definitely talk to her. You could even bring it up as a what if situation- just to see how she would react.
Good luck. I hope this works out for you.
[QUOTE=Quote (LadyOfLucidDepths @ Feb. 24 2004,13:12)]hmm if she is a lesbian too ... it seems liek she just MIGHT be up for it :P[/QUOTE]
Yeah, atleast you aren't into a straight friend. That would be much harder I imagine.
I do disagree with the "just kiss her" approach. I would sit down and tell her before you stick your tongue down her throat. But hey, you know her better than us. Do what you feel is right!
hmm if she is a lesbian too ... it seems liek she just MIGHT be up for it :P
i agree with brandeye just kiss her when shes in the middle of a sentence.. its the best.. catches them off gaurd and eventhough, you are kissing her.. it will catch you off gaurd too.
I am bi- and currently living pretty muc as a lesbian. I cannot imagine a lesbian taking that name. Oh, weel.
Kiss her. Then you both have to face up to the issues.
thank you for your help guys, it turned out that she couldnt make it to the party that night so i was saved. Just want to give you more info on us because i was in a rush the other night and obviously in a panic.
We're both lesbians, and she knows i am, but she doesn't know i feel that way about her.
We've been friends since High School, so its a pretty long time. And in that time, she's had two lesbian relationships since then and ive had three.
And another question, but when do you think is the best time to tell her how i feel? i honestly cant think of words to say to tell her that i've fancied her for some time now and i want to have a relationship with her?
Thanks for helping everyone
Jessica x x
Well....i guess the first thing i would to is ask to talk to your friend and bring up your feelings about your sexual identity. I wouldn't worry about "sex" right off the bat, tho it may happen...i'd be more focused on wanting to talk to her about your feelings that you belive u are a lesbian.
If she thinks you're str8, and u try to seduce her, she's either going to feel like a slut, or think u are using her to get your rocks off...remember....being gay/bi is NOT about sex..it's what you know deep in your heart and soul.
can anybody help? I'm seeing her soon...
firstly i guess i/d approach it like any other friendship turning into a dating relationship. there's nothing more you can do wen your bursting inside than to really tell her how u feel and plant a long lasting kiss on her lips, after heavy foreplay and flirting with her.
make sure you re-evaluate ur motives and you know that after doing this you prolly have her as your g/f and not make the relationship a hard one. you may put a masssive burden on the relationship after seducing her.... just a caution.
good luck