So I'm kinda curious about something. When I am having sex with my fwb, after a while her legs start to tremble in certain positions. Now at first I thought it was fatigue until I realize that its mostly when I am on top and have her legs up on my shoulders, together, or spread. She's curious as to why it happens and on a quick internet search everybody who has experienced the same thing says its simply because their partner is good (its the females saying this). She has told me I'm great but I was curious if there was any cause to this or if its that I genuinely give her a leg trembling experience lol
Fri, 02/18/2011 - 19:53
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Legs Shaking During Sex
During the runup to orgasm there is a tensing of all muscles (myotonia) plus, as you describe, some of those muscles in unaccustomed positions. This causes spasms and, therefore, the legs "jump." We tell you men that it is because you are so good.
I have had the same experience whilst masturbating.
Then there are-
* toes curling
* legs stretching
* arms stiffening
* hand(s) making a fist
* heavy breathing and/or panting
* grunting
* moaning
* perspiring
* PC squeezing
* making a face
+ grimacing
+ frowning or scowling
...all part of the same.
Lol Brandye why is it that you post seemed complimentary yet a total "just to float your ego" type deal?
I don't think it's JUST to float your ego. I wonder if part of it is an assumption that it's because you're so good. "That doesn't always happen, you must be pretty good" kind of thing.
I remember giving T a BJ where his hand spontaneously started flapping on the bed. (It sounds insulting, but think dog's foot pounding in response to a belly scratch) I stopped momentarily and asked him if he was tapping out, just to be sure I wasn't doing something wrong. No I wasn't he said, on the contrary it was an indication I was doing something right. Just a byproduct of what his body was experiencing.
Sad part is, I haven't ever gotten it to happen again :(
[QUOTE=lnt1103;265271]I don't think it's JUST to float your ego. I wonder if part of it is an assumption that it's because you're so good. "That doesn't always happen, you must be pretty good" kind of thing.
I remember giving T a BJ where his hand spontaneously started flapping on the bed. (It sounds insulting, but think dog's foot pounding in response to a belly scratch) I stopped momentarily and asked him if he was tapping out, just to be sure I wasn't doing something wrong. No I wasn't he said, on the contrary it was an indication I was doing something right. Just a byproduct of what his body was experiencing.
Sad part is, I haven't ever gotten it to happen again :([/QUOTE]
Lol that's actually funny I can totally see that happening.
It does make sense. I mean I can see how "oh you never coughed like that after sex it must be amazing" meanwhile its because she's having an amaze attack. My concern was because it wasn't like she was going insane and I just happened to hit the right spot...it is a common occurance we generally have marathon session. Grab a gatorade between quarters. Maybe some chocolate syrup for nutrients at half time. And usually late in the fourth quarter she starts to lose it. Her legs get shakey and she says its nothing painful or bad. She just kinda can't walk after that point. Never happens on the occasional quicky
Legs? I tremble all over! In the beginning I've even continued to tremble for quite a while after. Since I've learned to surrender to my orgasms more, the trembling lasts less long. I guess that also made it possible for me to orgasm several times in a row. The volume of my screaming and the flowing of my juices turned up, though :o And I get this drunk-like walk after :rolleyes:
If I do a great job with an hj/bj while he's on his back; just before he comes it's like there's an electric shockwave going through his body. Legs squeeze together and his abs contract and it makes his upper body and head jump up. A second after that he'll relax completely and he'll have his cum flowing richly, sometimes with a bit of aftershocks. If he's on top of me he does a bit the same, but with more tension in his arms and less "jumping" of the head (luckily, or he'll probably give me a headbutt ;))
Since i have become more comfortable and aware of my bodily reactions when i masturbate,i have noticed that as i am nearing climax,i experience a number of different spasms in my body.First my breathing gets harder and faster,my whole body tenses,and my back will arch,and yes my legs tremble and shake.I get a tingling all through me like a warm wave washing over and inside my body.I sigh and moan as my juices flow from me.Even though i experience these bodily sensations i feel relaxed and glowing all over afterwards.
My ex used to tremble sometimes during sex. Depending on the position and how much teasing/delaying I was subjecting her too. Certainly the legs would tremble the longer she was aroused. We'd never thought it unusual, just a typical sign of a good session.
Occassionaly, when she was flat on her back and I was giving her oral, and teasing her before her orgasm, she used to slap her hand on the bed, quite a few times, before finally releasing. I'd find this quite amusing and sexy, as I knew it reflected the intensity of the build up. She wasn't even aware she was doing it!
Also, I used to tense up in a similar way to that described by RedRoses. Tensing the thighs and abs slightly delays then intensifies the orgasm.
Great quote Ducy!
"And usually late in the fourth quarter she starts to lose it."
Okay but if you tense up to delay that orgasm, you are stopping any more from rolling on through. Being multi-orgasmic (yes, men too) requires relaxation as well as 'acceptance'.
yes i noticed the harder i squeeze during orgasm the longer it takes me for to get going again. if i just relax i can almost keep on going like some women. it is most difficult to relax on the first orgasm when it has been a while.