Ok, I've been with my BF for 2 years and still haven't given him head....I know...impossible! But we don't really do anything like that as we much prefer sex.
Well, the main reason I've never given him head is I don't have a clue how to. I know you put the penis in your mouth, and suck gently like a lollypop and twiddle your tongue a bit.
But really need someone to give me the basic steps.
Also, how do I get over the initial fear of doing it.
Any help appreciated.
There are stickies on the forum that talk about BJ techniques, as well as pages on the non-forum part of the site that talk about basics. I would suggest to read these first. Getting over the anxiety is just something that's going to have to come to you. But I will say that info and feeling like I had a clue helped me get the guts to try my first time. By now you know which of his reactions means what-pay attention to that just like you would any other new thing you try.
Part 1-
Please read the following:
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
Part 2-
Ask your boyfriend what he likes and to guide you
A relationship is a partnership. Making love is not what we do to each other; it is what we do with and for each other. Explore and learn together. There is no reason why you shouldn't have been further along than you are.
And the great part is that with practice you only get better.;)
Buy a package of popsicles. Eat them. It is pretty much the same motions. Just don't bite and remember to twist as you pull upward.
Practice, practice, practice is what is needed. Nothing like becoming an expert like doing it. The first time can be hard since you are not sure of yourself, but he won't mind being the one you practice on. The first time I went down on a girl I wasn't sure what to do, but I sure wanted to feel that spot and taste her. Especially after all the fingering I had done. Just learned to love the scent of a women on my fingers, so I wanted to have my nose and tongue right there. So it made it easier to just do it. But it took a lot of practice to get good at it. I just enjoyed the journey to get there and love oral sex, both giving and recieving.