I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 9 months now, we started having sex about 4 months ago (both losing our virginity), and she was virtually completely sexually inactive before our relationship.
At first, nothing really seemed that good for her, but over time sex has felt better and better for her, and she is more comfortable with telling me what to do otherwise but there is still one problem: every time I'm fingering her or massaging her clitoris she beings to get excited, moaning and such, and then her whole body tenses, however, she then begins to laugh and tells me that it becomes just like tickling her.
Because of this she doesn't experience an orgasm. although she says it feels good for her anyways, I'd still really like to help her out in any way i can...
any suggestions
ps: g-spot hasn't really seemed to do much of anything for some reason, I'm workin on it though ;)
1. Read Female Sexual Response in Chick Chat.
2. G-Spot is a rather sophisticated approach. Probably about ten percent of all women have ever had theirs found (if they exist); put your effort into learning the basics - such as the laughing as tension release that is taking the place of orgasm.