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me and my gf had sex last march 17 and 19, she has her mensruation last march 5-9. we used withdrawal method...until now she dont have menstruation....what will i do? do i have to panic?

Well, I thought it was better than saying f***ing. lol.

AHem.. tease.. the "DURN store"? LMFAO!!!! Too funny.

I dont think its any use.. he is one of "THEM".. Better be glad I dont know his girlfriend..

Ok, look, the first thing I told you was to go to the store and get a pregnancy test. I was the first one to reply, was I not?
So don't even start because I TOLD YOU what to do. You ignored it.

And then you come in here saying you let her take her pills. And then people get mad at you for that because any idiot should know that you don't take BC just on a random basis.
And then you post about drugging her up on this and when you don't even know if she's pregnant.

GO GET A FREAKING TEST. Is it that hard? It's much more simple AND cheaper to go down to the durn store, get a test, and see.

So don't even start with people when you're acting like the idiot to begin with and you ignore the advice given to you and pay no mind to what anyone says.

How old are you wjtejones? To me, you sound like a kid that's horribly scared... and I just can't imagine a grown man deciding to feed his gf pills like that, without even knowing what they do... but maybe I have too Romantic an outlook on life.

Hopefully, you didn't give her the pills yet, but I have a feeling it is too late. You need to take her to a doctor NOW and tell them the ENTIRE situation, NO LIES about any pills you gave her, for her own health. They should know how to take care of her, or at least monitor her for any bad side effects.

The only reason everybody is so pissed at you is because we told you OVER AND OVER again NOT to give her ANY pills AT ALL, and to go get a pregnancy test to find out if you even NEED to worry about anything. But you went and endangered her life! So of course you're going to be attacked. We gave you the best advice available, from people who have gone through the same thing, and you did exactly what we said not to do.

Just take a deep, deep breath, realize the huge mistake you made, and get your girlfriend to a doctor, PRONTO. It's the LEAST you can do.

I hope for the sake of the world that she wasn't pregnant.

[QUOTE=Quote (wjtejones @ April 13 2005,08:45)]you know what? im here to seek for a help.....about my my problem...yeah your right, im immature pathetic psychotic freak!!!!you happy now????im just posting a message here in your sexinfo101, to know if there is someone out there encounter a problem like this...and i want to know to that person waht the solution is......[/QUOTE]
People encounter suprise preganncies all the time.. the difference is that they dont have their lover take pills here and there and talk about all of these potentially dangerous drugs as the solution. Go whine to someone else about you feeling attacked, ok?

Youve been given advise over and over.. get a freaking test done before you start feeding her BC pills when you feeel like it , use a different form of BC than withdrawl, and dont scare the hell out of her.. you seem pretty immature from your responses.. things you want to give this poor girl. I dont care what YOU personally are.. I care about what youre doing to that girl. You admitting youre immature and irresponsible doesnt make me happy.. it makes me terribly sad for your girlfriend.

I also didnt say Psychotic or freak.. but if the shoe fits....

Ok here is a solution...first find out if she is fact PREGNANT
get a test... many ppl said the same thing...,, Then if she is pregnant, then its up to you BOTH on what to do.. it is also her decission since it is her body and she can do with it what she wants... do not go slipping pills in any of her beverages without her knowledge, that can put u in alot of hot water not only that but jepordize her life...

If she is not pregnant..and the test is negative ..well then you know what to do next time... PUT A CONDOM ON THAT WILLY ..actually double it up ..

DO NOT DO ANYTHING UNTIL YOU FIRST CONFIRM PREGNANCY!!!

you know what? im here to seek for a help.....about my my problem...yeah your right, im immature pathetic psychotic freak!!!!you happy now????im just posting a message here in your sexinfo101, to know if there is someone out there encounter a problem like this...and i want to know to that person waht the solution is......

Youve used the MOST unreliable method out there.. you asked for your panic.

Of course Ive been late .. sometimes two weeks.. its not a big deal and doing what you are proposing in ludicrous, not to mention criminal. You just want to feed your lover stuff without even taking a pregnancy test? How irresponsible and immature are you really? The chemical substances youve proposed giving her can cause her death.. do you care more abou tthat or your panic?
I guess you will have to grow up and be a responsibe little guy. You iused the most unreliable and stupid method pof BC out there.. had her take pills off of a schedule, and obviously have NO clue about sex, responsibility concerning sex, or the female body and obviously NO desire to educate yourself.

I suggest you grow the hell up, quit feeding the woman pills when you feel like it, read maybe.. figure out what youre doing to her.. STOP having sex for gods sake until you get a clue, and get a pregnancy test.

Youre one of those pathetic types that use abortion/RU486 as birthcontrol as you cant figure out the mechanics of anything and dont care to. Its not YOUR body being wrecked now is it? There ARE ways to prevent pregnancy and this "panic" youre going through is your own damned fault for being so grossly irresponsible. Keep it in your pants until you figure it out.

I cant really express how digusting you are without getting myself banned from this board.

...have you ever been delayed for 4 days already???the reason for this is im not yet ready and im aleady in panic....

Is he planning on just slipping it into her morning OJ or what?
I totally agree! before you go giving someone abortion pills you should find out if they are even pregnant, geesh.
This could have been solved DAYS ago by just going to the drug store and buying a simple test.
Its not that hard. I've had to do it, and the relief of just KNOWING helps a lot. Luckily I was not...whew!

He doesnt even know if she is pregnant or not... Geez... THIS is the poster child for abstaining....

[QUOTE=Quote ]tnx guys for the replies... i already have the solution to my problem.....MIFEPRISTONE,METHOTREXATE  and MISOPROSTOL......tnx guys.[/QUOTE]

OMFG is this guy for real!!!!!
I agree with mmparks U ARE A MORON point finale If I was her I would so tell u to stick it where the sun don't shine...and in case ya don't know where it is.. ITS up your ASS  

ARE YOU TRYING TO KILL HER MORON???!!!

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DID YOU MISS THE PART WHERE I SAID EDUCATE YOURSELF?? it doesnt just make a period start... if I was her Id get the hell away from you.

Plus, I think it takes two to three days for the pills to take effect? I'm not 100% sure about that, but I know that when I stop taking them, it takes about 3 days to get my period... I'm pretty sure it takes more than a day for the pill to start affecting your system.

And mmparks, you are 100% right it's wrong to take pills anytime. I admit that when I took my prescription to make me relaxed, it was a dumb thing to do (and I think illegal use of prescription drugs ) . My only point was, that you have to do something to take your mind off the worries of being pregnant. It probably wasn't even the pills that made me relax, but rather the thought that they would.

[QUOTE=Quote (wjtejones @ April 12 2005,08:56)]i let her take pills last april 8 to april 10. is it really normal to have a late menstruation?[/QUOTE]
Maybe her period is late because she is randomly taking BC pills and has her whole body screwed up. You either have to take them ALL the time just like it says, or none at all. Not just whenever.
The BC pill doesn't actually keep you from getting pregnant, like Oh Im gonna have sex tonight so I better take my pill. It's not like a Zantac and heartburn, it doesn't prevent it.
If you take it continuously then it works in several different ways to reduce your chances of pregnancy.

You know.. youre right about the pill stopping a period. When I was going on a vacation to a beach years ago I took a few extra ones from a spare pack.. it kept me period free till my vacation was over. You have a **GREAT** point. Now I dont advocate doing this but I was a nurse and thought I knew everything back then

ALl I can say is that its bad bad bad to just take pills whenever. AND Im gonna say something awful.. and dont really care if it offends.. it must be said :

how about not having any more sex until you learn some responsibility and educate yourself. You dont just feed a woman pills when you feel like it for god's sake... If she is pregnant I feel sorry for the kid on more levels than one.

Yes, I think the consensus is now:  JUST TAKE A PREGNANCY TEST.  It's a very, very bad idea to go messing around with medications for whatever reason, because (as mmparks said) if she is pregnant, that's bad bad bad for the baby!  It sounds like you are stressing out a ton, which means your girlfriend is also stressing out, at least because you are.  The only thing that's going to relax either of you is a pregnancy test.  If you want to be more sure, take two different brands of pregnancy test.  Then you can decide what to do from there, based on the results.

USE CONDOMS!  Or something, in the future!  I am on the pill, but I still don't trust it completely, and my bf and I almost always use condoms.  If you don't like condoms, and she doesn't like the pill, there are still lots of other forms of contraceptives out there, just go find them!  It's just that to me, using the withdrawal method is asking for trouble.

And actually, having her take the pill will STOP her period from coming, so just shy away from pills until the situation is figured out...

[QUOTE=Quote (LadyOfLucidDepths @ April 12 2005,10:42)]you let her? take the pill? yo ugotta take the pill consecutively.. not just RANDOM days.... dude, wtf...get a preg test, find out SIMPLE AS THAT her period is gonna come when its gonan come, and YOU arent gonna promote it.and getting her WORRIED isnt gonna help it come.[/QUOTE]
I was kinda shakin my head... hope she isnt pregnant for the kids sake....sheesh...

you let her? take the pill? yo ugotta take the pill consecutively.. not just RANDOM days.... dude, wtf...get a preg test, find out SIMPLE AS THAT her period is gonna come when its gonan come, and YOU arent gonna promote it.and getting her WORRIED isnt gonna help it come.

i let her take pills last april 8 to april 10. is it really normal to have a late menstruation?

The morning after pill is designed to make you infertal and in a way, "force" out the period.
But, in this case it's a little late for that as you're supposed to take that within 120 hours after intercourse. I always thought it was 72 hours but after taking my friend to the clinic yesterday after an oops, all their paperwork said 120 hours.

No there isn't anything to my knowledge that MAKES you have your period. I know BC pills can stop it if used a certain way but nothing induces it, at least I don't think so,

i want to know if there are any medications that will help her to have her menstruation?

I agree.. thats the WORST method imaginable! before you cum you can still release sperm. If you get any aroung her vagina.. she can stuill get pregnant.. its is just too risky!!!

with ANY method of birth control you DO alwyas have the chance of pregnancy. There is NO 100% safe birth control other than no sex or a hystorectomy. Not even vascectomies are 100 percent or tubal ligations. If you cant handle an accident, my suggestion is dont have sex. Thats where maturity comes in
Hell I was on Ortho tricyclene for 3 years.. no pregnancies. Im pregnant RIGHT NOW and I was faithfully taking the pill. Sex is dangerous LMFAO!

I can't believe I'm going to be the one to add this:

If you've been successful avoiding pregnancy with withdrawal for five years, congratulations! But you are playing big time Russian Roulette. You can certainly increase the odds of withdrawal working by watching her cycle closely and avoiding sex during her most fertile days.

But if you keep using this method, the odds are she's going to get pregnant.

Well I'm not sure what you are asking... all I suggest, for her to get her period (if it's coming) is to have her do anything that relaxes her and gets her to stop thinking about it. It doesn't mean she needs any medication to make that happen. Try giving her a massage before she falls asleep and just doing whatever you can to get her totally relaxed.

If she still doesn't get it, just take a pregnancy test... if it's negative, she won't have anything to worry about, and should relax and get her period. Stress is what keeps the period away.

tnx for your replies....we've been doing withdrawal method for 5 years already....when she had it, i promise myself not to do it with her again.i want to know some medications that will help her had it....can you help me?tnx

Yeah, I wouldn't get worried yet. Before I was on birth control, my periods were crazy... once I went almost two months between (when I was still a virgin!), and right before I decided to get on bc I went only 2 weeks between.

I do suggest using at least ONE form of bc, instead of just pulling out. Mostly because some semen can be released before you ejaculate, and you probably wouldn't even know. I've been on bc since I was a virgin, and when my bf and I didn't use condoms I would still get nervous.

Once I was so nervous about it, even though I was on bc, that my period didn't come until I took a tylenol with codeine (it was part of one of my prescriptions left over) to make me relax and go to sleep. Then when I woke up I had it.

I do not suggest giving her any pills, I'm just saying that she needs to find a way to stop thinking about it.

Well, sometimes periods are late. And the more you worry about it, the less likely it is to come on time.
Sometimes I think that having sex plays with your body as anytime I do it, I get really hungry a couple weeks after and I seem to start my period later. Go figure.

But if you're concerned, go down to the store and a get a pregnancy test. That will at least give you a 99% accuracy of whether or not to "panic" about something.

tnx guys for the replies... i already have the solution to my problem.....MIFEPRISTONE,METHOTREXATE and MISOPROSTOL......tnx guys.

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