How long have you been having sex?
Are you able to cum when you masturbate on your own??
A lot of times it's just the fact that you get accustomed to the grip, pressure, rhythm that your hand can do... a vagina can't grip as tight nor can you always pound away at it like you can your hand.
Sometimes it just takes some getting used to... and maybe not masturbate as much.
try having your girl get on top with you laying on your back. Have her go all the way down and then as she is slowly coming back up have her squeeze the muscle tightly in the walls of her vagina. After doing this a few times, she can ride a little faster, without squeezing. Then go back to slow and squeezing again. Alternating pressure and pace in combination with the wetness of her vagina will create a feeling different than what you can do with your hand.
T#2- If you mean you are not able to when having intercourse, then the usual reason nowadays, particularly with young people is that they begin intercourse way too soon and do not devote nearly enough time to making out before ever getting to foreplay. The usual fix is to wait on intercourse until you are about ready to climax yet can still maintain control so you can move around and get into position, etc.
Intercourse itself ought not last longer than about ten minutes or so tops because many women state that if it goes on and on, they become sore, bored, and, tired. If the two of you wish to prolong intercourse, my recommendation is to do it in stages, taking a break and going back to making out and foreplay before reengaging. It is not the greatest technique to stroke and stroke and stroke and stroke and thrust in the hope these actions will build your arousal sufficient to climax. This thinking is placing the proverbial cart before the horse.
How long have you been having sex?
Are you able to cum when you masturbate on your own??
A lot of times it's just the fact that you get accustomed to the grip, pressure, rhythm that your hand can do... a vagina can't grip as tight nor can you always pound away at it like you can your hand.
Sometimes it just takes some getting used to... and maybe not masturbate as much.
try having your girl get on top with you laying on your back. Have her go all the way down and then as she is slowly coming back up have her squeeze the muscle tightly in the walls of her vagina. After doing this a few times, she can ride a little faster, without squeezing. Then go back to slow and squeezing again. Alternating pressure and pace in combination with the wetness of her vagina will create a feeling different than what you can do with your hand.
Two things:
T#1- If you mean not being able to climax from a hand and/or oral stimulation, then read this:
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
T#2- If you mean you are not able to when having intercourse, then the usual reason nowadays, particularly with young people is that they begin intercourse way too soon and do not devote nearly enough time to making out before ever getting to foreplay. The usual fix is to wait on intercourse until you are about ready to climax yet can still maintain control so you can move around and get into position, etc.
Intercourse itself ought not last longer than about ten minutes or so tops because many women state that if it goes on and on, they become sore, bored, and, tired. If the two of you wish to prolong intercourse, my recommendation is to do it in stages, taking a break and going back to making out and foreplay before reengaging. It is not the greatest technique to stroke and stroke and stroke and stroke and thrust in the hope these actions will build your arousal sufficient to climax. This thinking is placing the proverbial cart before the horse.
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of Humping