5-10 minutes would be fairly typical but many young men cannot last that long. As a young woman, I always jacked my partner off during foreplay; he recovered "doing me" and then seconds. Or more.

Many of us, especially the half of us do not get off from thrusting, do not want it to last too long. If he has satisfied me, I could care less how short fuse. If it goes much over ten minutes, he will get dumped on the floor.

The solution to this problem is simple: Just plain old self-control. If you feel yourself getting close to orgasm too soon, SLOW DOWN. I really can't understand why so many guys have trouble with this...

With that said, most women aren't interested in having a guy pump away for more than about 15-20 minutes. Take too long and they'll get bored...

Much comes with time and learning control. As described by other posters here; that was usually the past experience 15 minutes or so straight. Ex-husband would stop and go to oral then back to penetration to hold out longer. Then I met my former finance--I think it was a battle of the wills--he would go for ever almost relishing in how many orgasms he made happen until he was satisfied with this [and I could not take it much longer] he would last no kidding for close to two hours straight. If it was a quickie; he was capable of 5 minutes. When I first met him--he wore me out and continued to do so for a long time. I was well, pretty sore and walked funny until I became used to him. Damned I miss that!

LOL@Sera.
Yes, 5-10 mintues of penetration is sufficient for most women. Some want more and a few don't want any at all.

I do 4 to 5 hours with a few rest break for him, myself. Am tyring to get a consistent 4 hour interlude three times a week.

[quote=EvilEvilKitten;212134]LOL@Sera.
Yes, 5-10 mintues of penetration is sufficient for most women. Some want more and a few don't want any at all.

I do 4 to 5 hours with a few rest break for him, myself. Am tyring to get a consistent 4 hour interlude three times a week.[/quote]I have to say I miss my former fiance for many reasons...his "abilities" were fantastic and he is a great man overall; honestly it's a shame the compromise of his career enhancement pushed us in different directions. Talk about compatible; we were with that one exception he had to increase his travel for his career while I would be home alone or following him around the world on the spur of the moment. I miss the endless hours of our daily interludes, our time spent at winery's, and even grocery shopping. We even had fun mowing the lawns together! We both still agree on that!

That is sad Sera. Perhaps, there is a chance to patch things up and rekindle
that romance. Something so valuable is maybe not the best thing to let go.
Something to ponder perhaps.

[quote=constantlylearning;212147]That is sad Sera. Perhaps, there is a chance to patch things up and rekindle
that romance. Something so valuable is maybe not the best thing to let go.
Something to ponder perhaps.[/quote]
We talk and see each other as friends currently...not sexually; neither of us can go there since it hurts too much. He is spinning his wheels right now and beginning to settle into a different life, left the company, I think he needs time before anything is considered...he needs to know what he wants and stop chasing a dream. A career is great but it can leave you a lonely person. Dating others worked for him, until he figured he had much with me and a woman who loves him dearly. Can we compromise? Much depends on him and what his career & life goals are.

Sounds promising, Sera! Keep the communication lines open!

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;212134]LOL@Sera.
Yes, 5-10 mintues of penetration is sufficient for most women. Some want more and a few don't want any at all.

I do 4 to 5 hours with a few rest break for him, myself. Am tyring to get a consistent 4 hour interlude three times a week.[/QUOTE]

Wow, that sounds crazy, you are not saying 4-5 hours of penetration are you? And are you talking about in one session?

Ha EEK...crazy....those words are two in the same Derick...havent you read "The Program" does that all the time

[quote=EvilEvilKitten;212151]Sounds promising, Sera! Keep the communication lines open![/quote] He did not tell me the full truth about how many people he dated after his divorce initially due to knowing I might run. Found out later, much later, he was divorced 8 months and dated several women yet had no real significant relationship--until me. Then he was wanting to settle down, begin a family fast due to our ages, sell his house, and either change jobs or commute further. Too much change too fast & I had a few years on my own already. Hes' been dating for abut 1 1/2 years now, figured job changes were good--he switched, not involved w/anyone, and is finding the big house alone a burden with keeping it up and not being around much.

He calls & chats...new for him. He has been the most honest now then ever, self-actualization or something, and sees job/career changes was the best for him & wants to sell in the future. Gee? And he asked me out for dinner. He never took the time to stop, think, and get his bearings about him. Now he is realizing that what the compromise was was too fast for him, although he did not want to realize it then, and he is not finding the depth of love he had with me. Sadly enough he even said he loved me more then his former wife of 14 years since they did not have common interests and goals.

Good Luck Sera.

To Derrick, yes, people do have 4+ hr sessions with mostly penetration, though I can't speak for EEK if she meant penetration specific.

As long as the woman is multiorgasmic, stays lubricated(or you're willing to keep adding some) and the man is capable of multiple ones, it's not terribly difficult. A major key is to not blindly pound away but focus on zeroing in and caressing specific spots from multiple angles. This way the orgasm isn't forced bringing about a lack of sensitivity and/or soreness and the woman instead has waves of orgasms of varying intensity which you and she can control.

My gf and I have been doing this awhile, but recently she figured out a few tricks of her own to make me lose control and the tables have turned leaving me the one wandering around with noodle legs and a confused look on my face.

Derick & funin - depends upon the man - some can do 4 hrs of penetration and some penetration periodically with body worshipping in between bouts for a total of 4 hrs.

Testrode a teddybear tonight - not at all bad! I can work with him.